How to live "in, not of" the world?
How can we live as "not of the world" in daily life?

Anchoring in the Key Verse

“​They are not of the world, just as I am not of the world.” (John 17:16)


What “Not of the World” Does Not Mean

• Pulling away into isolation or despising everyday responsibilities

• A holier-than-thou attitude that looks down on unbelievers

• Abandoning culture, art, or civic life altogether


What It Does Mean

• A new identity and loyalty that centers on Christ (Colossians 3:1-3)

• A lifestyle shaped by Scripture rather than prevailing opinions (2 Timothy 3:16-17)

• A visible distinction that points people to Jesus (1 Peter 2:9)


Daily Practices for Living “Not of the World”

• Start each day in the Word—let God set the agenda before media or messages do (Psalm 119:105)

• Pray through your schedule—invite the Lord into meetings, errands, and family moments (Philippians 4:6-7)

• Speak words that build up, even in small talk, texts, and comments (Ephesians 4:29)

• Choose entertainment thoughtfully—filter shows, music, and apps through Philippians 4:8

• Honor commitments at work or school as service to Christ, not merely to bosses (Colossians 3:23-24)

• Budget time and money with eternity in view—invest in people and kingdom causes (Matthew 6:19-21)


Guarding the Mind

• “Do not be conformed to this age, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.” (Romans 12:2)

• Memorize Scripture; it rewires reflexes when temptation shows up (Psalm 119:11)


Cultivating Distinctive Obedience

• “As obedient children, do not conform to the passions of your former ignorance… ‘Be holy, because I am holy.’” (1 Peter 1:14-16)

• Ask, “What does holiness look like in my phone habits? my humor? my relationships?”


Engaging Culture Without Absorbing It

• “You are the salt of the earth… You are the light of the world.” (Matthew 5:13-14)

• Salt flavors only by contact; light shines only when present. Live among people, yet keep the flavor of Christ unmistakable.


Strengthened Through Fellowship

• “Let us consider how to spur one another on to love and good deeds, not neglecting to meet together.” (Hebrews 10:24-25)

• Small groups and Sunday gatherings recalibrate our hearts and guard against drift.


Depending on the Spirit

• “Walk by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the flesh.” (Galatians 5:16)

• Pause before reactions—invite the Spirit to produce love, joy, and self-control instead of knee-jerk flesh responses (Galatians 5:22-23).


Representing Jesus Everywhere

• “We are therefore ambassadors for Christ.” (2 Corinthians 5:20)

• In conversations, conflicts, or celebrations, remember Whom you represent and act accordingly.


Encouragement from Christ’s Prayer

• “I am not asking that You take them out of the world, but that You keep them from the evil one.” (John 17:15)

• Our Lord prayed this over us; the Father delights to answer, empowering us to live in the world yet unmistakably His.

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