How can we ensure our homes reflect the welcoming spirit of Judges 19:16? The Setting in Judges 19:16 “Just then an old man came in from his work in the field that evening. He was from the hill country of Ephraim but was residing in Gibeah, where the inhabitants were Benjamites.” The old man’s gracious act—inviting total strangers to lodge safely under his roof—stands out in stark contrast to the surrounding moral darkness. His ordinary home became a refuge because he carried an extraordinary commitment to hospitality. Biblical Foundations for a Welcoming Home • Genesis 18:1-8—Abraham hurried to serve three visitors: lavish, prompt, wholehearted. • Leviticus 19:33-34—“You shall love the stranger as yourself.” • Hebrews 13:2—“Do not neglect to show hospitality to strangers, for by so doing some people have entertained angels without knowing it.” • 1 Peter 4:9—“Show hospitality to one another without complaining.” Together these passages confirm that opening our homes is not optional; it is covenant obedience. Cultivating a Hospitable Mind-Set • See people, not inconveniences. The old man noticed travelers at the town square and acted. • Believe God owns the house; we steward it (Psalm 24:1). • Expect blessing, not loss—“whoever waters will himself be refreshed” (Proverbs 11:25). Practical Steps to Reflect Judges 19:16 Today • Keep margin in the schedule so a knock at the door is met with calm, not panic. • Maintain a simple guest-ready space: clean linens, extra towels, basic toiletries. • Stock easy, shareable foods—soups, casseroles, bread—so a meal can appear quickly. • Teach children to make eye contact, greet visitors, and offer help with coats or bags. • Pray as a family before guests arrive: “Lord, let them sense Your peace here.” • Stay alert in public places (church foyer, neighborhood park, workplace) for newcomers who may need a meal or conversation. • Follow up: a text or note after the visit says, “You mattered to us.” Guardrails for Healthy Hospitality • Safety and discernment—Luke 10:3 “I am sending you out like lambs among wolves”; wisdom and boundaries honor God too. • Share the load—hospitality is lighter when everyone contributes (1 Corinthians 12:14-27). • Rest—Jesus withdrew to lonely places (Mark 1:35); replenish to keep doors open long-term. The Fruit We Can Expect • Strangers become friends; friends become family in Christ (Ephesians 2:19). • Children witness faith in action, rooting them in genuine compassion (Deuteronomy 6:6-7). • The gospel gains credibility when lived out around a dinner table (Romans 12:13). • Ultimately, every welcome points to the greater welcome God gives us in Christ (John 14:2-3). Conclusion Homes that echo the spirit of Judges 19:16 are ordinary places run by ordinary people who believe an extraordinary God can use a front door, a meal, and a listening ear to advance His kingdom. Open the door and watch Him work. |