What steps can we take to avoid misunderstandings like those in Joshua 22:10? Setting the Scene “Now when they came to Geliloth near the Jordan in the land of Canaan, the Reubenites, Gadites, and the half-tribe of Manasseh built a large, conspicuous altar there by the Jordan.” (Joshua 22:10) The western tribes saw that altar and immediately feared apostasy. Swords rattled, tensions rose—and yet the entire incident ended in peace once motives were clarified. What can keep us from repeating that near-disaster? Why Misunderstandings Erupt • We judge appearances before hearing explanations (Proverbs 18:13). • We forget the unity God has already given His people (Ephesians 4:3). • We react faster than we listen (James 1:19). Steps to Prevent Similar Confusion • Seek facts first. – “The first to state his case seems right until another comes and cross-examines him.” (Proverbs 18:17) – Commit to gathering accurate information before forming conclusions. • Assume family loyalty, not rebellion. – Israel initially forgot their brothers’ past faithfulness. We can choose to “believe all things, hope all things” (1 Corinthians 13:7). • Initiate direct, compassionate dialogue. – Jesus commands, “If your brother sins against you, go and confront him privately.” (Matthew 18:15) – Face-to-face conversation clears fog that rumors magnify. • Include wise, godly mediators when needed. – Israel sent Phinehas and ten tribal leaders—respected voices who could represent both sides. – An impartial mediator keeps discussion anchored in Scripture. • Measure every action by God’s revealed Word. – The tribes’ primary concern was fidelity to the Lord’s altar (Deuteronomy 12:13–14). – Verify that motives and methods both align with clear biblical commands. • Communicate intent, not merely actions. – The eastern tribes explained, “It is a witness between us and you” (Joshua 22:27). – Sharing the “why” behind choices dispels suspicion. • Celebrate unity once understanding is reached. – Israel laid down arms and blessed God (Joshua 22:33). – Rejoicing together cements bonds that misunderstandings tried to sever. Living This Out Today • Before posting, texting, or tweeting, pause long enough to ask: “Do I have the whole story?” • Choose personal conversation over public accusation. • Keep Scripture central; let God’s truth, not human suspicion, frame the dialogue. • Pray for a heart that values unity so highly that you’ll work hard to preserve it. Closing Encouragement Misunderstandings are inevitable, but division is not. When we gather facts, listen well, and let Scripture guide every step, we follow the same path that turned a potential civil war in Joshua 22 into a testimony of shared faith. |
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