In what ways can we guard against pride as seen in Absalom's actions? Setting the Scene “After this, Absalom provided for himself a chariot and horses and fifty men to run ahead of him.” (2 Samuel 15:1) Absalom’s public display wasn’t mere transportation; it was a calculated image campaign. Chariots, horses, an entourage—every detail whispered, “Look how important I am.” Pride took root, and Israel’s hearts soon followed (15:6). Spotting Pride in Absalom • Self-promotion: He “provided for himself,” orchestrating a spectacle that centered on him. • Dependence on outward show: Chariots and horses became props to signal status. • Manipulation: Verse 6 notes, “Absalom stole the hearts of the men of Israel”; pride fueled deceptive charm. • Rejection of God-appointed authority: By elevating himself, Absalom undermined his father, the anointed king. Guardrails to Keep Our Hearts Humble 1. Remember who gives position and influence – “What do you have that you did not receive?” (1 Corinthians 4:7) – Every talent, platform, and resource is a gift; acknowledging the Giver deflates self-exaltation. 2. Measure success by obedience, not applause – “The one who boasts must boast in the Lord.” (2 Corinthians 10:17) – Applause fades; faithfulness endures. 3. Cultivate a hidden life with God – Jesus taught giving, praying, and fasting “in secret” (Matthew 6:1-6, 16-18). – Regular, unseen disciplines keep motives pure. 4. Welcome correction – “Let a righteous man strike me—it is kindness” (Psalm 141:5). – Invite accountability before pride blinds us, unlike Absalom who silenced dissent. 5. Serve rather than be served – “Whoever wants to become great among you must be your servant” (Mark 10:43-44). – Choosing lowly tasks undercuts the craving for status symbols and entourages. Practical Steps for Today • Limit self-promotion on social media; highlight God’s work and others’ contributions instead. • Routinely thank God aloud for specific gifts—abilities, opportunities, possessions—shifting credit upward. • Set aside time each week to serve unnoticed: write anonymous encouragement, clean a church room, visit the overlooked. • Keep a pride log: when a compliment inflates the ego, note it, pray Psalm 115:1—“Not to us, O LORD, not to us, but to Your name give glory”. • Memorize humility verses (e.g., Philippians 2:3-4) and recite them in moments of temptation. Scripture Connections • Proverbs 16:18—“Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall.” • James 4:6—“God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble.” • 1 Peter 5:5-6—“Clothe yourselves with humility… that He may exalt you in due time.” • Galatians 5:26—“Let us not become conceited, provoking and envying one another.” • Micah 6:8—“Walk humbly with your God.” Closing Thoughts Absalom’s story warns that pride often begins with subtle self-inflation and ends in open rebellion against God. By embracing gratitude, secrecy in service, teachability, and Christ-like humility, believers can guard their hearts and stay in step with the One who “humbled Himself and became obedient to death” (Philippians 2:8). |
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