What steps can we take to avoid "slander" in our conversations? Key Scripture Foundation Ephesians 4:31 – 32: “Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, outcry and slander, along with every form of malice. Be kind and tenderhearted to one another, forgiving each other just as in Christ God forgave you.” What Slander Is • False or damaging statements about someone’s character • Passing along rumors without verification (Proverbs 10:18) • Twisting facts to paint another in a bad light • Whispering criticism you would never voice face-to-face (Psalm 101:5) Why Slander Must Go • Divides friendships and churches (Proverbs 16:28) • Violates the command to love our neighbor (James 4:11) • Invites God’s opposition (Psalm 101:5) • Contradicts the new life we received in Christ (1 Peter 2:1) Practical Steps to Keep Slander Out of Our Conversations 1. Fill the heart with Scripture – Let the word of Christ dwell richly (Colossians 3:16). 2. Think before speaking – Be “quick to listen, slow to speak” (James 1:19). 3. Verify—or stay silent – “He who conceals hatred has lying lips, and he who spreads slander is a fool” (Proverbs 10:18). 4. Speak directly, not behind backs – Follow Matthew 18:15 for addressing offenses. 5. Aim to build up, not tear down – Only words “helpful for building up” (Ephesians 4:29). 6. Practice forgiveness and humility – Remember Christ’s forgiveness (Ephesians 4:32). 7. Walk away from slanderous talk – “Avoid the one who talks too much” (Proverbs 20:19). 8. Invite accountability – “Iron sharpens iron” (Proverbs 27:17). Daily Habits That Reinforce Pure Speech • Start and end each day with thanksgiving; gratitude crowds out criticism. • Memorize key passages on speech (James 3:1-12; Colossians 4:6). • Confess slips immediately; keep short accounts with God. • Intentionally bless those you might be tempted to malign (Romans 12:14). The Blessings of a Slander-Free Life • Deeper unity among believers • A credible witness before a watching world • Personal joy and a clear conscience (1 Peter 3:10-11) |
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