How to seek God's guidance in decisions?
In what ways can we seek God's guidance before making decisions like in 1 Kings 20?

Setting the Scene

Ben-hadad of Aram surrounds Samaria, boasting of easy victory. Ahab, though a flawed king, receives a clear word from a prophet: God Himself will give the win (1 Kings 20:13–14). Ben-hadad, however, marches forward on his own reasoning and pride, issuing the order:

“Whether they have come out for peace or for war, take them alive.” (1 Kings 20:18)

The contrast is striking—God offers guidance; Ben-hadad ignores it. Scripture shows that ignoring the Lord’s counsel leads to confusion, while seeking it brings victory (see also 2 Chronicles 20:15-17).


Why Guidance Matters

• Decisions shape destinies.

• God already sees what we cannot (Isaiah 46:10).

• He promises wisdom for every circumstance (James 1:5).


Patterns for Seeking God’s Guidance

• Submit to His revealed Word

– “Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path.” (Psalm 119:105)

– Begin by asking, “What has God already said about this issue?”

• Invite the Holy Spirit’s illumination

John 16:13: the Spirit “will guide you into all truth.”

– Quiet moments in prayer allow Him to clarify motives and options.

• Listen to godly counsel

– Ahab heard a prophet; today, pastors, mature believers, and Spirit-filled mentors help confirm direction (Proverbs 11:14).

– Weigh advice against Scripture; never above it.

• Check for peace and alignment

– “Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts.” (Colossians 3:15)

– Internal unrest can be a warning; peace, when consistent with Scripture, is often a green light.

• Wait when direction is unclear

– “Be still before the LORD and wait patiently for Him.” (Psalm 37:7)

– Rushed choices often mirror Ben-hadad’s presumption; patience positions us to hear.

• Obey promptly once clarity comes

– Ahab acted promptly with the “young officers,” and God delivered (1 Kings 20:15-20).

– Delayed obedience can become disobedience (James 4:17).


Practical Checklist Before Deciding

□ Have I searched the Scriptures on this topic?

□ Have I prayed, asking for wisdom?

□ Have I sought input from trusted, Bible-anchored believers?

□ Do I sense the Spirit’s confirmation and peace?

□ Am I willing to obey immediately, whatever He says?


Encouragement for Today

Proverbs 3:5-6:

“Trust in the LORD with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight.”

Follow these steps, and you’ll avoid the tragedy of Ben-hadad’s self-reliance and experience the faithful guidance the Lord delights to give His people.

How does 1 Kings 20:18 connect to Proverbs 19:21 about human plans?
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