How can we ensure we "seek instruction" from godly leaders in our lives? Setting the Theme “Listen to counsel and accept discipline, and you will be wise the rest of your days.” (Proverbs 19:20) Why Godly Leaders Matter • God appoints shepherds for our benefit (Ephesians 4:11–12; Hebrews 13:7). • Their counsel guards us from deception (Proverbs 11:14). • Submitting to sound guidance produces lasting wisdom, not momentary relief (Proverbs 13:20). Heart Attitudes That Welcome Instruction • Humility – willingly admitting limits (James 1:21). • Teachability – leaning in, not bristling, when corrected (Proverbs 15:32). • Eagerness – prioritizing spiritual growth over comfort (Psalm 119:99–100). • Prayerful dependence – asking the Spirit to illuminate truth (John 16:13). Practical Steps to Seek Instruction 1. Identify proven servants of Christ. – Look for consistent fruit: sound doctrine, integrity, love (1 Timothy 3:2–7). 2. Come under regular teaching. – Attend corporate worship, Bible classes, small groups (Acts 2:42). 3. Schedule personal check-ins. – Invite leaders to speak into decisions, habits, relationships (Proverbs 15:22). 4. Take notes and revisit them. – Treat counsel as treasure, not disposable advice (Proverbs 2:1–2). 5. Act promptly on what aligns with Scripture. – Obedience cements lessons, procrastination erodes them (James 1:22–25). 6. Share progress and struggles. – Transparency multiplies wisdom and accountability (Hebrews 13:17). 7. Multiply the pattern. – Pass on what you receive to others (2 Timothy 2:2). Guardrails for Discernment • Measure every word against Scripture (Acts 17:11). • Watch for the Spirit’s peace and clarity (Colossians 3:15). • Flee leaders who twist truth or spotlight themselves (Galatians 1:6–9; 2 Peter 2:1–3). Encouragement to Stay the Course Persistently receiving godly instruction keeps hearts soft, minds sharp, and lives aligned with Christ. The wise remain lifelong learners, and the promise still stands: “you will be wise the rest of your days.” |
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