How to show appreciation to believers?
In what ways can we express appreciation for fellow believers in our lives?

Scripture Snapshot

Philemon 1:4: “I always thank my God, remembering you in my prayers.”


Gratitude Begins With God

• Paul’s instinct is to turn first to the Lord, recognizing that every good work in a brother or sister is ultimately God’s doing (James 1:17).

• By thanking God for believers, we honor the Giver while affirming the value He has placed on His people (1 Corinthians 1:4; Colossians 1:3).


Express Appreciation Through Prayer

• Mention fellow believers by name when you pray (2 Timothy 1:3).

• Thank God not only for what they do, but for who they are in Christ.

• Let them know you prayed; a simple note or text saying, “I thanked God for you today,” can lift weary hearts (Philippians 1:3–5).


Speak It—Words That Refresh

• Verbal encouragement nourishes souls (Proverbs 16:24).

• Affirm observable fruit—faith, love, perseverance—just as Paul commended Philemon (Philemon 1:5-7).

• Share specific examples: “Your kindness to that new family showed Christ’s love.”


Write It—Notes That Endure

• Paul’s entire letter to Philemon is a written tribute.

• A handwritten card, an email, or even a short message becomes a keepsake believers revisit in challenging moments (3 John 1:13-14).


Show It—Acts That Bless

• Serve practical needs: meals, childcare, transportation (Galatians 5:13).

• Offer time—help with a project, attend an event, sit and listen. Actions reinforce words (1 John 3:18).


Give It—Gifts That Encourage

• Thoughtful gifts communicate, “I notice and value you” (Philippians 4:18).

• Choose items that reflect spiritual growth—a Bible journal, worship music, or a resource that aligns with their ministry passions.


Stand With Them—Public Support

• Commend believers openly, as Paul did for Philemon before the whole church (Philemon 1:7).

• Celebrate milestones—baptisms, anniversaries of service, mission reports—so the entire body is strengthened (Romans 12:10).


Keep It Ongoing

• Appreciation is not a one-time gesture; make it habitual (1 Thessalonians 1:2).

• Calendar reminders, prayer lists, and intentional conversation starters help gratitude remain fresh.

• As we consistently thank God for fellow believers and express that gratitude to them, the church grows warmer, stronger, and more united—just as the Lord intends (Hebrews 10:24-25).

How does Philemon 1:4 connect with 1 Thessalonians 5:18 on giving thanks?
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