In what ways can you identify wise individuals to learn from? Foundation Verse “Walk with the wise and become wise, for a companion of fools suffers harm.” (Proverbs 13:20) Why the Verse Matters • Scripture plainly states that the company we keep shapes our character. • God’s Word is accurate and literal: choosing wise companions is not optional advice—it is a divine directive tied to blessing or harm. Marks of a Wise Person to Seek Out • Reverent Fear of the Lord – Proverbs 9:10: “The fear of the LORD is the beginning of wisdom.” – Look for someone whose daily decisions show a conscious desire to honor God. • Scripture-Saturated Conversation – Colossians 3:16: “Let the word of Christ richly dwell within you.” – The wise naturally weave God’s Word into counsel and everyday speech. • Observable Godly Fruit – Matthew 7:16: “By their fruit you will recognize them.” – Watch for consistent love, joy, peace, patience, kindness—evidence that the Spirit is active (Galatians 5:22-23). • Humility and Teachability – James 3:13: “Who is wise and understanding among you? Let him show it by his good conduct, by deeds done in the humility that comes from wisdom.” – True wisdom is never arrogant; it welcomes correction. • Proven Track Record in Trials – James 1:2-4 shows that testing produces maturity. – Seek those who have walked through hardship without abandoning faith, emerging steadied rather than bitter. • Integrity in Speech – Proverbs 10:19: “When words are many, sin is unavoidable, but he who restrains his lips is wise.” – Wise individuals speak truth, avoid gossip, and know when silence is best. • Stewardship of Resources – Proverbs 21:20 praises wise management of finances and possessions. – Observe generosity without reckless spending, and planning without anxiety. • Commitment to Community and Accountability – Hebrews 10:24-25 underscores gathering together for mutual encouragement. – A wise mentor is planted in a local church, submitted to its leadership, and not a spiritual lone ranger. Practical Steps to Discern Wisdom 1. Watch Over Time – Consistency reveals character; give relationships room to prove reliability. 2. Compare Counsel with Scripture – Acts 17:11 commends the Bereans for verifying teaching against the Word. – If advice contradicts the Bible, it is not wisdom. 3. Examine Their Inner Circle – 1 Corinthians 15:33 warns, “Bad company corrupts good character.” – If their closest friends are foolish, their wisdom is superficial at best. 4. Look for Servant-Leadership – Mark 10:45 shows Christ serving; wise followers imitate Him. – A truly wise person will be quick to roll up sleeves, slow to seek spotlight. 5. Seek Peaceable Atmosphere – James 3:17 describes wisdom as “peace-loving, gentle, compliant, full of mercy.” – Where contention or constant drama follows, wisdom does not. Walking With the Wise • Intentionally schedule time—meals, ministry projects, study groups. • Ask thoughtful, open-ended questions about life, faith, and choices. • Observe and imitate Christlike habits: prayer rhythms, Scripture intake, gracious speech. • Remain humble; learning requires a soft heart and readiness to change. Promises and Warnings to Remember • Promise: “Walk with the wise and become wise.” Growth is guaranteed when we align ourselves with the right companions. • Warning: “A companion of fools suffers harm.” Proximity to folly invites pain—spiritual, relational, even physical. Choose wisely, walk closely, and watch God fulfill His Word in your life. |
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