Hushai's loyalty: godly friendship?
How does Hushai's loyalty to David reflect godly friendship and counsel?

Setting the Scene

• Absalom has usurped the throne. David is on the run.

• Into this tension walks Hushai the Archite—David’s longtime friend and adviser (2 Samuel 15:32–37).

2 Samuel 16:18: “Hushai answered Absalom, ‘No, for whomever the LORD, this people, and all the men of Israel have chosen, his I will be, and with him I will remain.’”


Marks of Godly Friendship

• Steadfastness under pressure

Proverbs 17:17: “A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for adversity.”

– Hushai risks his life by infiltrating Absalom’s court rather than abandon David.

• Alignment with God’s choice

– Hushai roots his loyalty in what “the LORD…has chosen,” showing friendship grounded first in obedience to God.

• Personal sacrifice

John 15:13: “Greater love has no one than this, that he lay down his life for his friends.”

– Hushai’s covert role could cost him everything, echoing this principle.


Counsel That Protects

• Strategically placed by David (2 Samuel 15:34): “But if you return to the city and say to Absalom, ‘I will be your servant, O king…’ then you can thwart the counsel of Ahithophel.”

• Hushai’s words in 2 Samuel 17:7–14 overturn Ahithophel’s deadly advice, giving David time to regroup.

Proverbs 27:9: “Oil and perfume bring joy to the heart, and the sweetness of a friend is counsel to the soul.” Hushai’s counsel literally saves lives, illustrating this proverb.


Evidence of Covenant Loyalty

• Hebrew concept of hesed (steadfast love) underpins true friendship (Ruth 1:16–17).

• Hushai models hesed by binding his fate to David despite opposing forces.


Fruit of Faithful Counsel

• David escapes (2 Samuel 17:21–22).

• Absalom’s revolt collapses (2 Samuel 18).

• God vindicates loyalty—Psalm 41:11: “By this I know that You delight in me: my enemy does not triumph over me.”


Takeaways for Today

• True friends stand with you when it costs them.

• God-honoring counsel seeks the Lord’s choice, not personal advantage.

• Strategic, wise words spoken at the right moment can shift entire battles.

• Loyal friendship becomes a channel through which God accomplishes His faithful purposes.

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