How should Matthew 22:28 influence our perspective on earthly relationships? Setting the Scene Matthew 22 records a challenge from the Sadducees, who denied any resurrection. They spin a hypothetical about a woman who, according to Levirate law, marries seven brothers in succession. Their punchline is verse 28: “In the resurrection, then, whose wife of the seven will she be? For all of them were married to her.” Key Observation from Matthew 22:28 • The question exposes a mindset that reduces eternal realities to earthly categories. • Jesus’ subsequent reply (v. 30) makes clear that marriage is strictly an earthly institution: “In the resurrection, people will neither marry nor be given in marriage. Instead, they will be like the angels in heaven.” Implications for Marriage and Family • Marriage is good, but temporary – Mark 12:25 echoes the same truth. – Ephesians 5:31-32 shows human marriage pointing beyond itself to the greater mystery of Christ and the church. • Earthly relationships must not eclipse eternal priorities – 1 Corinthians 7:29-31 reminds believers that “this world in its present form is passing away.” – Therefore, even the closest bonds are to be held with open hands. • Spiritual family outweighs biological ties – Jesus calls disciples His “brother and sister and mother” (Matthew 12:50), indicating a family united by faith that will endure forever. A Higher Love • Our deepest identity rests in being children of the resurrection, not spouses or parents. • Recognizing the temporary nature of earthly roles frees us to love our spouses, children, and friends selflessly—without clinging or anxiety. Putting It Into Daily Practice • Prioritize kingdom pursuits together – Share Scripture, prayer, and service as a family (Matthew 6:33). • Invest in the church family – “As we have opportunity, let us do good to everyone, and especially to those who belong to the family of faith.” (Galatians 6:10) • Hold earthly roles lightly, love faithfully – Enjoy God’s gifts of marriage and family, yet remember they are signposts, not destinations. – Encourage one another to fix hope on the resurrection, where perfected fellowship with Christ and His people will surpass even the sweetest relationships here. |
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