How does John 21:21 encourage us to trust God's plan for others? Setting the Scene After breakfast by the Sea of Galilee, Jesus restores Peter and commissions him to “Feed My sheep” (John 21:17). As they walk, Peter notices “the disciple whom Jesus loved” following them. Peter’s Question “Peter, seeing him, said to Jesus, ‘Lord, what about him?’ ” (John 21:21) Peter’s words are simple, but they reveal a familiar tug of curiosity—and perhaps concern—about someone else’s future. Jesus’ Direct Reply “Jesus answered, ‘If I want him to remain until I return, what is that to you? You follow Me!’ ” (John 21:22) Christ’s answer is gentle yet firm: Peter is to concentrate on his own obedience, trusting the Lord with John’s destiny. What This Teaches About Trusting God’s Plan for Others • God writes unique stories – Jeremiah 29:11 affirms His deliberate, hopeful plans. – Romans 9:20-21 reminds us He shapes each vessel for His purpose. • Comparison distracts from faithfulness – 2 Corinthians 10:12 warns against measuring ourselves by others. – Envy or anxiety over someone else’s path steals joy and focus. • The Lord alone directs another believer’s course – Romans 14:4: “Who are you to judge someone else’s servant? To his own master he stands or falls.” – He who calls also equips (1 Thessalonians 5:24). • Obedience is personal and immediate – “You follow Me!” centers Peter on present faithfulness rather than speculative forecasting. – Trust grows as we act on what we already know (James 1:22-25). Practical Ways to Live This Out • Pray more, pry less—intercede for others instead of interrogating their future. • Celebrate distinctive callings—affirm friends when God leads them differently. • Release control—acknowledge that God loves them more than we do. • Stay in your lane—pursue your assignment wholeheartedly (Colossians 3:23). • Speak life—offer encouragement, not comparison (Ephesians 4:29). Key Takeaway John 21:21 invites us to shift from curiosity about others’ destinies to confident trust in the Lord who crafts each path. When we keep our eyes on Jesus and obey His clear call, we rest assured that He is sovereign over those we love, guiding them with the same wise and loving hand that guides us. |