Lesson on fasting attitude?
What does "do not be somber" teach about our attitude during fasting?

Setting the Scene

Matthew 6:16

“When you fast, do not be somber like the hypocrites, for they disfigure their faces to show men they are fasting. Truly I tell you, they already have their reward.”


What “Do Not Be Somber” Simply Means

• “Somber” translates the Greek idea of a gloomy, sullen appearance.

• Jesus singles out a look that seeks sympathy or admiration.

• He commands the opposite: no gloomy faces, no self-pity, no attention-seeking.


Why a Cheerful Spirit Matters While Fasting

1. It Guards the Heart

– Fasting is worship aimed at God, not self-promotion (Matthew 6:17-18).

– A bright countenance helps keep motives pure.

2. It Testifies to Trust

– Joy signals confidence that “the Father who sees in secret” meets every need (v. 18).

– Compare Nehemiah 8:10: “The joy of the LORD is your strength.”

3. It Reflects Proper Theology

Philippians 4:4: “Rejoice in the Lord always.” “Always” includes fast days.

Psalm 34:5: “Those who look to Him are radiant.” Radiance, not gloom, fits a God-ward gaze.


Practical Ways to Obey

• Decide joy ahead of time: settle the attitude before the fast begins.

• Maintain normal hygiene and appearance (Matthew 6:17, “anoint your head and wash your face”).

• Speak less about what you’re giving up and more about God’s goodness.

• Worship privately—read Scripture, sing, pray—fueling inner gladness that spills outward.


Warnings Against a Somber Display

• Public recognition empties the heavenly reward (Matthew 6:1,16).

• Hypocrisy poisons devotion; it seeks the applause of people, not the smile of God (Luke 18:11-14).

• A dour face can misrepresent God as a harsh taskmaster rather than a loving Father (James 1:17).


The Positive Model Jesus Gives

• Fast “in secret” (Matthew 6:18): unseen by others, seen by the Father.

• Expect the Father’s reward—deeper communion, answered prayer, strengthened faith.

• Let unseen grace create visible serenity; fasting becomes a quiet feast of joy with God.


Takeaway

“Do not be somber” calls believers to display a hopeful, joyful confidence in God while fasting—turning what could look like deprivation into a vibrant act of worship that points to the Father’s sufficiency and goodness.

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