What can we learn from David's gratitude towards the men of Jabesh-gilead? Setting the Scene • Saul’s reign has ended in tragedy (1 Samuel 31). • The men of Jabesh-gilead risked their lives to retrieve and bury Saul and his sons. • David, newly anointed king in Hebron, hears of their courage and responds. David’s Gratitude in Action “May you be blessed by the LORD, because you have shown this kindness to Saul your lord and have buried him.” (2 Samuel 2:5) • David sends messengers—he acts quickly and personally. • He pronounces a blessing—acknowledging that true reward comes from God. • He calls their deed “kindness” (ḥesed)—covenant love that mirrors God’s own character (cf. Exodus 34:6). • He pledges future kindness to them (2 Samuel 2:6)—gratitude translates into ongoing loyalty. What We Learn from David’s Gratitude • Honor righteousness wherever it is found. – Even though Saul had hunted David, David honors the men who honored Saul (Romans 13:7). • Gratitude bridges old divides. – David’s thanks opens relationship with northern Israel, laying groundwork for future unity (Psalm 133:1). • A godly leader rewards faithfulness. – Proverbs 3:27; Hebrews 6:10—God notices, and His servants should too. • Responding kindly to those linked with former adversaries reflects trust in God’s justice. – Romans 12:19-21; Matthew 5:44. • Public gratitude multiplies courage in others. – Encouragement fuels further acts of bravery (1 Thessalonians 5:11). • Gratitude prepares the way for mercy. – David’s later kindness to Mephibosheth (2 Samuel 9) grows from this pattern of grace. Scripture Connections • 1 Samuel 31:11-13 — Jabesh-gilead’s daring rescue. • Proverbs 25:21-22 — “feed your enemy”; David lives this principle. • Galatians 6:10 — “let us do good to everyone.” • Colossians 3:15-17 — thankfulness as the believer’s atmosphere. • Psalm 18:50 — David himself later sings, “He shows loving devotion to His anointed.” Living Out the Lesson • Look for hidden faithfulness around you and call it out. • Express gratitude promptly, personally, and God-ward. • Celebrate good deeds even when performed for those who once opposed you. • Let thankfulness shape future actions—seek practical ways to extend kindness. • Remember: God honors those who honor others; gratitude is a doorway to deeper unity and blessing. |