What can we learn from Jesus' approach to addressing Simon in Luke 7:40? Setting the Scene Simon the Pharisee has silently judged the repentant woman who anoints Jesus’ feet (Luke 7:36-39). Jesus knows Simon’s hidden thoughts and turns to address him directly. Scripture Focus “ But Jesus answered him, ‘Simon, I have something to tell you.’ ‘Tell me, Teacher,’ he said.” (Luke 7:40) Observations on Jesus’ Approach • He responds to thoughts, not just words—showing divine knowledge (cf. John 2:24-25). • He calls Simon by name, personal and disarming (cf. John 20:16). • He prefaces with “I have something to tell you,” inviting consent rather than forcing correction. • He allows Simon to respond, creating dialogue instead of monologue. • He retains the title “Teacher,” acknowledged even by a skeptical host—affirming rightful authority. • He moves from invitation into a parable (vv. 41-43), giving Simon space to discover truth himself. What We Can Learn • Address the heart: Real change begins when hidden motives are exposed to God’s light (Hebrews 4:12-13). • Use names: Personal address builds connection and reduces defensiveness (Isaiah 43:1; Acts 9:4). • Invite, don’t coerce: An open door (“I have something to tell you”) respects the other person’s will (Revelation 3:20). • Listen for a response: Conversation fosters understanding; lecturing fuels resistance (James 1:19). • Speak with authority rooted in truth, yet with gentleness (2 Timothy 2:24-25). • Employ stories and illustrations: Parables help truth land on willing hearts (Matthew 13:34). Cultivating Christlike Conversation • Pray to perceive unspoken needs as Jesus does. • Begin with relationship—name, respect, and genuine concern. • Frame correction as an invitation to see from God’s perspective. • Let Scripture guide, trusting its power to convict and heal (2 Timothy 3:16-17). • Stay patient: Allow the Holy Spirit to work as individuals process truth (John 16:8). |