What can we learn from Jethro's actions about honoring family relationships? Scripture Focus “Jethro, Moses’ father-in-law, together with Moses’ sons and wife, came to Moses in the wilderness where he was camped at the mountain of God.” — Exodus 18:5 Setting the Scene • Moses has just led Israel out of Egypt and is facing the daily pressures of leadership in the wilderness. • Jethro, his Midianite father-in-law, brings Moses’ wife Zipporah and their two boys back to him. • Though Jethro is a priest of Midian, he recognizes Yahweh’s work in Moses and wants to rejoice with him (see Exodus 18:10-11). What Jethro Actually Did • Took the initiative to restore family proximity—he “came to Moses.” • Traveled with Moses’ wife and children, ensuring their safety and reunion. • Announced his arrival respectfully (18:6), waiting to be welcomed rather than presuming on Moses’ time. • Celebrated God’s victories with Moses (18:8-9) before offering counsel (18:13-24). Lessons on Honoring Family Relationships 1. Initiate contact, don’t wait passively – Jethro made the journey; honoring family sometimes requires going out of our way. 2. Prioritize family unity – He physically reunites husband, wife, and children. Protecting the family bond honors God’s design (Genesis 2:24). 3. Respect boundaries and roles – Jethro signals his arrival rather than intruding, recognizing Moses’ leadership yet remaining a respected elder (Romans 12:10). 4. Celebrate God’s work together – Sharing testimonies strengthens family faith (Psalm 78:4). 5. Serve the practical needs of relatives – Escorting Zipporah and the boys met tangible needs, echoing 1 Timothy 5:8: “If anyone does not provide for his own…”. 6. Offer wisdom after relationship is affirmed – Counsel is best received in the context of demonstrated love (Proverbs 27:9). Supporting Passages • Ephesians 6:2 — “Honor your father and mother,” affirming lifelong respect within extended family. • Ruth 1:16-17 — Ruth travels with Naomi, modeling devoted kinship. • Luke 2:51 — Jesus “was obedient” to earthly parents, underscoring familial honor. • Colossians 3:13-14 — Bear with and forgive one another; love “binds everything together in perfect harmony.” Living It Out Today • Schedule regular visits, calls, or video chats with extended family; don’t let distance erode connection. • Look for concrete ways to lighten relatives’ loads—child-care, errands, financial help. • Share testimonies of God’s faithfulness at family gatherings, reinforcing spiritual heritage. • Offer advice only after demonstrating genuine interest and affection. • Model respect for in-laws, recognizing their enduring place in God’s design for family. Closing Thoughts Jethro’s simple journey in Exodus 18:5 turns a desert campsite into a family reunion. His example shows that honoring family is active, intentional, and God-honoring. By pursuing unity, respecting roles, serving needs, and celebrating the Lord’s work together, we follow the pattern Scripture commends for every generation. |
    |