What can we learn about decision-making from the kinsman's response in Ruth 4:4? Opening snapshot of the scene Ruth 4:4 finds Boaz publicly confronting the closer kinsman-redeemer at the town gate: “And I thought I should inform you: Buy it back in the presence of our brothers and those seated here and in the presence of the elders of my people. If you will redeem it, do so. But if you will not, tell me, so that I will know. For no one has the right to redeem it but you, and I am next after you.” “I will redeem it,” he replied. Why this moment matters • The nearer kinsman is granted first right of redemption for Elimelech’s land—an act that carries both privilege and responsibility under God’s law (Leviticus 25:25; Deuteronomy 25:5-6). • His quick answer appears confident, yet further details (vv. 5-6) reveal that he hadn’t examined all the implications. The incident gives timeless insight into wise, godly decision-making. Key lessons for decision-making • Consider the whole cost before committing – Jesus advised, “For which of you, wishing to build a tower, does not first sit down and count the cost?” (Luke 14:28). – The kinsman seized the opportunity but overlooked the attached duty to marry Ruth. His later reversal illustrates the danger of partial information. • Seek clarity, not impulse – Proverbs 19:2: “Desire without knowledge is not good, and whoever hurries his footsteps misses the mark.” – A paused, prayerful investigation avoids the embarrassment of retracting a word. • Make decisions in the light, not in the dark – Boaz sets the discussion “in the presence of the elders.” Transparency protects everyone involved (2 Corinthians 8:21). – Decisions aired openly invite accountability and preserve integrity. • Respect God-given order and responsibility – The nearer kin had the primary right; Boaz honored that order. – Recognizing God’s structure—whether family, church, or civic—guards against self-willed choices (Romans 13:1). • Guard your witness by keeping your word – Ecclesiastes 5:4-5 warns against making vows and not fulfilling them. – The kinsman’s quick “I will redeem” followed by “I cannot redeem” (v. 6) weakened his credibility. Our “yes” and “no” should be firm (Matthew 5:37; James 5:12). • Balance personal interest with covenant faithfulness – His stated fear: “lest I endanger my own estate” (v. 6). Protecting assets eclipsed loyalty to family covenant. – Philippians 2:4 directs believers to look not only to personal interests but also to those of others. Practical take-away checklist 1. Pause—ask God for wisdom (James 1:5). 2. Gather full information—examine obligations as closely as opportunities. 3. Bring decisions into accountable settings—trusted believers, leadership, written agreements. 4. Align with Scripture’s order—honor established responsibilities first. 5. Speak carefully—commit only to what you will carry through. 6. Weigh personal benefit against covenant love—let faithfulness guide final choices. Closing thought The unnamed kinsman’s hasty “yes” turned “no” highlights how partial discernment leads to flawed choices. Steady, Scripture-anchored deliberation protects us from the same misstep and leads to decisions that honor God, bless others, and stand the test of time. |
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