What can we learn about humility from the servants' actions in 1 Kings 20:32? The Setting of the Verse 1 Kings 20:32: “So they girded sackcloth around their waists and ropes around their heads, went to the king of Israel, and said, ‘Your servant Ben-hadad says: “Please let me live.”’ The king answered, ‘Is he still alive? He is my brother.’” Their Humble Actions • Sackcloth on their bodies—public signal of mourning and contrition • Ropes on their heads—visual confession of guilt and submission • Calling Ben-hadad “your servant”—renouncing claims to power or status • A simple plea: “Please let me live”—casting themselves entirely on another’s mercy Key Lessons on Humility • Humility begins with visible repentance. The servants did not defend prior aggression; they owned it, wearing the garb of sorrow (Joel 1:13). • True humility lowers self-importance. Warriors who once boasted of conquest now approach as beggars, illustrating Proverbs 29:23—“A man’s pride will bring him low, but a humble spirit will obtain honor.” • Humility acknowledges rightful authority. They recognized Israel’s king as one able to grant or deny life, paralleling Romans 13:7—“Give everyone what you owe him…respect to whom respect is due.” • Humility appeals to mercy, not merit. No argument for deserving life is offered; they rely on unearned favor, echoing Luke 18:13’s tax collector: “God, have mercy on me, a sinner.” • Outward signs matter, but heart sincerity matters more. Ben-hadad’s later actions reveal the danger of superficial humility (cf. Matthew 15:8). God desires both the sackcloth and a contrite spirit (Psalm 51:17). Complementary Scriptures • James 4:10—“Humble yourselves before the Lord, and He will exalt you.” • 1 Peter 5:5–6—“God opposes the proud, but gives grace to the humble.” • Philippians 2:3—“Do nothing out of selfish ambition…in humility consider others more important than yourselves.” Practical Takeaways for Today • Wear humility publicly and privately. Our attitudes and actions should broadcast repentance and meekness just as clearly as sackcloth did. • Approach God and others confessing dependence, not entitlement. Replace “I deserve” with “I need mercy.” • Accept rightful authority—parent, employer, government, and above all the Lord—without resentment. • Guard against counterfeit humility. Let repentance reshape future choices, proving the heart matches the outward posture. |