Lessons on humility in Genesis 24:17?
What can we learn about humility from the servant's request in Genesis 24:17?

Setting the Scene

“Then the servant ran to meet her and said, ‘Please let me drink a little water from your jar.’ ” (Genesis 24:17)

Abraham’s senior servant has been sent to Mesopotamia to find a wife for Isaac. He has just prayed for a clear, God–given sign (vv. 12-14). When Rebekah appears and meets the exact conditions of that prayer, the servant’s first move is not a grand speech but a simple, respectful request for a drink.


Humility Seen in the Servant’s Words

• He approaches Rebekah as a needy stranger, not as an entitled emissary.

• He asks, “Please,” showing courtesy instead of command.

• He seeks “a little water,” reflecting modest expectation rather than excess.

• He speaks first, but he lets Rebekah choose to respond; he does not coerce.

• He runs to meet her—indicative of eagerness to serve God’s plan, not his own comfort.


Key Lessons on Humility

• Godly confidence and personal humility fit together. The servant has assurance of mission yet expresses genuine dependence on another person.

• Humility begins with recognizing one’s limitations; even those on divine errands still need a drink.

• Courtesy often reveals humility more than dramatic acts. A polite request can testify to a yielded heart.

• True humility does not diminish assignment; it enhances it. The servant’s lowliness positions him to witness God’s exact answer to prayer (vv. 26-27).

• Humility invites partnership. By requesting instead of demanding, the servant draws Rebekah into the unfolding promise.


Scripture Echoes

Proverbs 3:34: “He mocks the mockers but gives grace to the humble.”

James 4:6: “God opposes the proud, but gives grace to the humble.”

Philippians 2:3-4: “In humility consider others more important than yourselves.”

1 Peter 5:5: “Clothe yourselves with humility toward one another.”

Luke 14:11: “Whoever exalts himself will be humbled, and whoever humbles himself will be exalted.”


Jesus, the Greater Servant

John 4:7 parallels Genesis 24:17: “Jesus said to her, ‘Give Me a drink.’ ” Christ, Lord of all, chose the posture of requester, modeling ultimate humility.

Matthew 20:28: “The Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve.” Abraham’s servant prefigures the humility perfected in Jesus.


Putting Humility into Practice Today

• Begin conversations with genuine courtesy—“please,” “thank you,” and open-ended requests.

• Admit everyday needs; asking for help is not weakness but an avenue for God’s provision.

• Approach tasks God assigns—ministry, family, work—without entitlement.

• Invite others into God’s story rather than dictating their role.

• Keep prayers specific yet surrendered, as the servant did (vv. 12-14), ready to worship when God answers (vv. 26-27).

How does Genesis 24:17 demonstrate the importance of kindness in our actions?
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