Lessons on loyalty from 2 Sam 18:10?
What can we learn about loyalty from the soldier's actions in 2 Samuel 18:10?

Verse spotlight

“ When a man saw him, he told Joab, ‘I saw Absalom hanging in an oak tree.’ ” (2 Samuel 18:10)


Setting the scene

• Absalom’s rebellion has led to open battle.

• David charged his commanders, “Deal gently with the young man Absalom for my sake” (2 Samuel 18:5).

• One unnamed soldier discovers Absalom helpless in a tree and reports to Joab instead of striking.


Marks of loyalty in the soldier’s action

• Immediate reporting—he runs straight to his superior, Joab, respecting military order.

• Obedience to the king—by withholding violence, he honors David’s explicit command (vv. 5, 12).

• Integrity over reward—later he says, “Even if a thousand shekels of silver were weighed out into my hands, I would not raise my hand against the king’s son” (v. 12).

• Fear of God and king—he understands that violating the king’s word would bring judgment (v. 13).


Lessons for us today

• Loyalty is active: it seeks proper channels rather than acting impulsively.

• True allegiance submits to authority even when personal gain is possible (cf. Romans 13:1–2).

• Faithfulness shows in the small moment—choosing righteousness in a single decision can shape a larger outcome.

• Love and obedience are intertwined: “If you love Me, you will keep My commandments” (John 14:15).


Scripture echoes

• David himself modeled restraint toward Saul (1 Samuel 24:6).

• Warriors who rallied to David were “of one mind” with him (1 Chronicles 12:38).

• “Loving devotion and faithfulness guard a king” (Proverbs 20:28).


Takeaways

• Biblical loyalty is measured by obedience to rightful authority and God’s revealed word.

• Refusing to advance self-interest at another’s expense demonstrates covenant faithfulness.

• The unnamed soldier’s choice reminds believers that loyalty often speaks loudest in unseen, decisive moments.

How does 2 Samuel 18:10 illustrate the consequences of disobedience to God?
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