What can we learn about loyalty from David's actions in 2 Samuel 19:39? Setting the Scene • David is returning to Jerusalem after Absalom’s revolt. • Barzillai the Gileadite had supplied food and support when David was in exile (2 Samuel 17:27-29). • 2 Samuel 19:39 shows the king’s farewell moment: “So all the people crossed the Jordan, and the king crossed too. Then the king kissed Barzillai and blessed him, and Barzillai returned to his home.” What David Actually Does • He crosses with the people—identifying himself with them. • He personally greets Barzillai—no delegating, no formality. • He kisses him—public, affectionate honor. • He blesses him—invokes God’s favor, not mere thanks. • He releases him home—respecting Barzillai’s wishes (see vv. 34-37). Lessons on Loyalty 1. Loyalty remembers. – David keeps in mind the aid given during crisis (cf. Proverbs 17:17). 2. Loyalty responds personally. – True gratitude costs time and emotion; it isn’t outsourced (Philippians 1:3-4). 3. Loyalty honors publicly. – Open recognition encourages faithful service in others (Romans 13:7). 4. Loyalty blesses spiritually. – A loyal heart wants God’s best for its benefactor, not merely to settle a debt (Numbers 6:24-26). 5. Loyalty protects freedom. – David doesn’t force future service; he grants Barzillai liberty, showing trust (Galatians 5:13). Living It Out Today • Keep a record of those who have stood with you in hardship; reach out intentionally. • Offer tangible, heartfelt appreciation—notes, calls, or face-to-face affirmation. • Speak blessing over supporters; pray aloud for God’s favor on them. • Acknowledge allies publicly—in family gatherings, church, or workplace. • Release people from obligation; let gratitude, not guilt, bind relationships. Supporting Scriptures • 2 Samuel 9:1-7—David shows similar loyalty to Jonathan’s son, Mephibosheth. • 1 Samuel 18:3—Jonathan’s covenant with David models steadfast friendship. • Ruth 1:16-17—Ruth’s devotion to Naomi illustrates sacrificial loyalty. • Proverbs 27:10—“Do not forsake your friend and your father’s friend…” • John 15:13—“Greater love has no one than this: that he lay down his life for his friends.” |
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