Lessons on obedience from Rebekah?
What lessons on obedience can we learn from Rebekah's plan in Genesis 27:6?

Setting the Scene

“Rebekah said to her son Jacob, ‘Behold, I overheard your father saying to your brother Esau…’” (Genesis 27:6).

With that one sentence, Rebekah launches a daring, deceptive scheme to secure Isaac’s blessing for Jacob. Her plan immediately pits two kinds of obedience against each other:

• Jacob’s duty to obey his mother (Exodus 20:12; Ephesians 6:1).

• The higher duty for both mother and son to obey God’s moral standards of truth and honor (Exodus 20:16; Proverbs 12:22).


What Rebekah Got Right

• She valued God’s covenant blessing. Genesis 25:23 had revealed that “the older shall serve the younger,” and she believed that word.

• She acted quickly, showing that spiritual matters are urgent, not casual.

• She trained Jacob to appreciate the blessing instead of despising it, unlike Esau (Hebrews 12:16-17).

These positives remind us to cherish God’s promises and seek His favor above earthly gain.


Where Obedience Broke Down

• Substituting deception for faith. Rather than wait for God to fulfill His word, Rebekah chose manipulation, contradicting Psalm 37:5—“Commit your way to the Lord; trust in Him, and He will act.”

• Leading her son into sin. “Woe to the world for the causes of sin… but woe to the man through whom it comes!” (Matthew 18:7).

• Ignoring the cost of sin’s consequences: family division, Jacob’s exile, and years of grief (Genesis 27:41-45).


Key Lessons for Our Own Obedience

• Honor God’s hierarchy of authority. When human instruction violates God’s commands, “We must obey God rather than men” (Acts 5:29).

• Means matter as much as ends. A righteous goal pursued by unrighteous methods is still disobedience.

• Faith waits; flesh schemes. True obedience trusts God’s timing (Isaiah 64:4).

• Parental influence is powerful. Parents shape children’s conscience; therefore, model integrity, not expediency (Deuteronomy 6:6-7).

• God redeems but does not excuse sin. Though He used Jacob to carry the covenant forward, the pain that followed shows sin’s lingering sting (Galatians 6:7).


Personal Takeaways

• Ask: Does my obedience align with both the letter and spirit of God’s Word?

• Guard against justifying wrong actions with “good” intentions.

• Teach and model honesty so the next generation learns to obey God first.


Supporting Scriptures

Genesis 25:23; 27:6-17

Exodus 20:12, 16

Psalm 37:5

Proverbs 12:22

Acts 5:29

Ephesians 6:1

Galatians 6:7

How does Rebekah's action in Genesis 27:6 reflect on family dynamics today?
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