Matthew 18:28: Why forgive others?
How does Matthew 18:28 illustrate the importance of forgiving others' debts or sins?

The Setting of the Parable

Jesus has just portrayed a king who freely forgives a servant’s unpayable debt (ten thousand talents). The forgiven man immediately meets a peer who owes him a tiny fraction of that amount—and his reaction becomes the object lesson for every disciple.


Zooming In on Matthew 18:28

“ But when that servant went out, he found one of his fellow servants who owed him a hundred denarii. He grabbed him and began to choke him, saying, ‘Pay back what you owe me!’ ” (Matthew 18:28)


Key Observations From the Verse

• A “hundred denarii” equals about a hundred days’ wages—significant, yet minuscule beside the canceled fortune.

• The forgiven servant “found” his debtor; he went looking, revealing a heart still fixated on accounts.

• He “grabbed” and “began to choke him,” displaying violence that mirrors the unrelenting attitude of unforgiveness.

• His demand, “Pay back what you owe me,” ignores the mercy he himself just received.


God’s Perspective on Our Debts

• The king’s mercy illustrates God’s lavish grace toward our immeasurable sin-debt (cf. Psalm 103:10–12).

• Failure to extend similar mercy contradicts the gospel we claim to cherish (Matthew 18:32–33).

• Jesus reinforces the same principle in the Lord’s Prayer: “Forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our debtors” (Matthew 6:12). Unforgiveness severs fellowship with the Father (Matthew 6:14–15).


Living Out Forgiveness Today

• Identify any “hundred-denarii” offenses you still clutch.

• Remember the “ten-thousand-talent” pardon you received at the cross (Colossians 2:13–14).

• Release others verbally and intentionally—cancel the debt.

• Replace bitterness with active kindness (Ephesians 4:32).

• Keep short accounts; forgive quickly before resentment tightens its grip (Hebrews 12:15).


Supporting Scriptures to Keep in View

Luke 17:3–4 — repeated forgiveness, even seven times in a day.

Colossians 3:13 — “Forgive as the Lord forgave you.”

Romans 12:19–21 — leave vengeance to God, overcome evil with good.

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