How can we guard against the arrogance described in Psalm 12:4 in daily life? The warning in Psalm 12:4 “ ‘With our tongues we will prevail. We own our lips—who can be our master?’ ” Why this matters today • Arrogance here is self-rule: setting ourselves above God’s authority. • Left unchecked, it spreads—from speech to attitudes, from attitudes to actions (Proverbs 16:18). Exposing the roots of arrogant speech • Prideful self-reliance (James 4:6). • An untamed tongue that feels answerable to no one (James 3:5-8). • Forgetting that every word will be judged (Matthew 12:36). Guardrails for the heart • Daily submission: “Humble yourselves… that He may exalt you” (1 Peter 5:6). • Gratitude as antidote: thank God aloud for His gifts; pride withers when credit goes upward (1 Thessalonians 5:18). • Regular repentance: confess arrogance quickly; keep accounts short (1 John 1:9). Guardrails for the tongue • Scripture memory: let verses dwell “richly” so they spill out instead of boasting (Colossians 3:16). • Slow speech rhythm: “Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak” (James 1:19). • Edifying filter: ask, Will this build up? “Let no unwholesome talk come out of your mouths” (Ephesians 4:29). Guardrails for the mind • Meditate on God’s sovereignty (Psalm 115:3); remembering His rule silences “who can be our master?” • Recognize dependence: “Apart from Me you can do nothing” (John 15:5). • Replace self-praise with praise of Christ (Philippians 3:3). Guardrails in community • Invite accountability: a trusted believer who can gently confront proud words (Galatians 6:1). • Serve others with no spotlight (Mark 10:43-45); service trains the soul to look outward. • Worship corporately; shared adoration of God realigns perspective (Hebrews 10:24-25). Daily practice checklist □ Begin the morning acknowledging God’s ownership of your lips. □ Before speaking, breathe and ask, “Will this honor Christ?” □ End the day reviewing words spoken; repent and make restitution where needed. Living out a humble witness When the heart is yielded, the mastery of God replaces the boast of Psalm 12:4. The tongue then becomes a “tree of life” (Proverbs 15:4), pointing others to the true Master whose words never fail. |