How does Proverbs 10:1 define a wise son and a foolish son? Setting the Scene “The proverbs of Solomon: A wise son brings joy to his father, but a foolish son brings grief to his mother.” What Makes a Son Wise? • Values the fear of the LORD (Proverbs 1:7) • Listens to parental instruction (Proverbs 1:8–9; Ephesians 6:1–3) • Seeks understanding and applies it (Proverbs 3:13) • Chooses righteousness over convenience (Proverbs 11:5) • Honors family reputation (Proverbs 27:11) • Produces life-giving speech and actions that refresh others (Proverbs 10:11, 21) What Makes a Son Foolish? • Rejects godly counsel and discipline (Proverbs 15:5) • Scoffs at moral boundaries (Proverbs 14:9) • Lives for self-gratification, ignoring consequences (Luke 15:13) • Stirs conflict and strife in the household (Proverbs 17:14; 19:13) • Displays stubbornness that hardens the heart (Proverbs 29:1) • Brings emotional “grief” or “bitterness” to parents (Proverbs 17:25) Results of Wisdom vs. Folly Wise son: – Parents rejoice; family strengthened – Reputation gains favor with God and people (Proverbs 3:4) – Life marked by blessing, stability, and honor (Proverbs 4:8–9) Foolish son: – Parents wounded; home atmosphere darkened – Personal path riddled with trouble and shame (Proverbs 13:15) – Ultimately faces judgment for rejecting wisdom (Proverbs 29:23) Takeaway for Today Proverbs 10:1 defines wisdom in practical, relational terms: genuine wisdom delights those who nurtured us. A life tuned to God’s instruction becomes a source of deep parental joy, while a life of rebellion turns that same parental love into sorrow. The choice between the two remains as clear—and urgent—as ever. |
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