How can Proverbs 28:7 guide our choice of friends and companions? Opening the Text “A discerning son keeps the law, but a companion of gluttons disgraces his father.” — Proverbs 28:7 What the Verse Shows • Two paths are set in stark contrast: – “Keeps the law” — a commitment to God’s revealed will. – “Companion of gluttons” — habitual partnership with those driven by excess. • One path honors family and, more importantly, honors the Lord; the other brings shame. The Principle of Discernment • “Discerning” implies careful, thoughtful evaluation. • Discernment starts with Scripture (Psalm 119:105) and extends to relationships (Proverbs 13:20). • Choosing companions, then, is never neutral; it is moral and spiritual territory. Friendship Filters Drawn from Proverbs 28:7 1. Law-Oriented: – Look for friends whose lives show obedience to God’s Word. 2. Self-Controlled: – Gluttony pictures unrestrained appetite; avoid those who celebrate excess (Proverbs 23:20-21). 3. Honor-Conscious: – Companions who respect authority and family ties help you do the same (Ephesians 6:1-3). 4. Reputation-Building: – “Disgraces his father” reminds us our choices reflect on loved ones and, ultimately, on Christ (Matthew 5:16). Positive Companion Checklist • Do they hunger for God’s Word? (Psalm 1:2) • Do they sharpen your character? (Proverbs 27:17) • Do they display self-control in speech, spending, and habits? (Galatians 5:22-23) • Do they help you say no to sin and yes to righteousness? (2 Timothy 2:22) Putting It into Practice • Evaluate current friendships in light of Proverbs 28:7. • Seek out believers committed to walking in the light (1 John 1:7). • Set gracious boundaries with companions whose lifestyle pulls you toward excess or disobedience (2 Corinthians 6:14-15). • Be the kind of friend you’re looking for—model discernment, self-control, and honor. Closing Thoughts Proverbs 28:7 reminds us that friendship is discipleship by proximity. Walk with those who love God’s law, and you’ll find your life marked by honor rather than disgrace (1 Corinthians 15:33). |
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