How can Proverbs 9:7 guide our approach to sharing the Gospel? Verse Focus: Proverbs 9:7 “He who corrects a mocker brings shame on himself; he who rebukes a wicked man taints himself.” Why This Matters for Gospel Sharing • The verse highlights two realities: some listeners welcome truth, others scorn it. • Wisdom is knowing the difference and adjusting our approach so the message, and our own witness, are not needlessly dishonored. Discernment: Reading the Heart Before We Speak • Jesus echoed this principle: “Do not give dogs what is holy; do not cast your pearls before swine…” (Matthew 7:6). • Look for signs of sincere curiosity—questions, humility, respect. • Notice indicators of hostility—mockery, profanity, ridicule. • Ask the Spirit for insight (James 1:5) so your words land on receptive soil (Luke 8:15). Protecting the Message and the Messenger • Rebuking a hard-hearted mocker often turns the Gospel into a spectacle, inviting scorn rather than conviction. • Our calling is to “shine as lights” (Philippians 2:15) not to trade insults. • Guard your own spirit: “A servant of the Lord must not be quarrelsome but kind to everyone” (2 Timothy 2:24-25). When to Press On, When to Step Back • Engage when someone shows openness—even if their questions are sharp. • Withdraw when the conversation degenerates into pure ridicule. Jesus Himself walked away from unfruitful disputes (John 10:39). • Remember: silence can be as powerful a witness as speech (1 Peter 2:12). Practical Steps for Gospel Conversations 1. Pray for wisdom and timing before initiating. 2. Start with questions that invite reflection rather than confrontation. 3. Share personal testimony; mockers often find it harder to dismiss lived experience. 4. Keep answers gentle and concise (1 Peter 3:15). 5. If ridicule erupts, kindly but firmly end the exchange: “I respect your view; let’s pause this for now.” 6. Leave the door open—God may soften that heart later (Acts 16:14). Balancing Boldness and Prudence • Boldness: “We cannot stop speaking about what we have seen and heard” (Acts 4:20). • Prudence: “Conduct yourselves with wisdom toward outsiders, making the most of the opportunity. Let your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt” (Colossians 4:5-6). • Boldness without prudence courts needless abuse; prudence without boldness hides the light. Encouragement to Persevere • Some will mock, yet others will believe (Acts 17:32-34). • Your task is faithfulness; results belong to God (1 Corinthians 3:6-7). • Rest in Christ’s promise: “If they persecuted Me, they will persecute you as well” (John 15:20). He sees every conversation and rewards every faithful witness. |