Spot & avoid devilish traits in kids?
How can we identify and avoid behaviors of "children of the devil"?

Opening Lens: 1 John 3:10

“By this the children of God and the children of the devil are distinguished: Anyone who does not practice righteousness is not of God, nor is anyone who does not love his brother.”


Seeing the Divide Clearly

• Scripture recognizes two spiritual families—God’s and the devil’s.

• The line is drawn by practice: a lifestyle pattern, not an occasional slip.

• Righteousness and love mark God’s children; persistent sin and hatred reveal the other side.


Behaviors that Signal the Devil’s Family Resemblance

• Persistent, unrepentant sin

1 John 3:8: “The one who practices sin is of the devil.”

– Habitual law-breaking without sorrow shows allegiance.

• Lack of brotherly love

1 John 2:9–11: hatred blinds and darkens the heart.

– Indifference to need (1 John 3:17) is just as telling.

• Deception and lying

John 8:44: “When he lies, he speaks his native language.”

– Stretching truth, manipulating facts, or double-talk echoes that voice.

• Murderous or spiteful attitudes

1 John 3:15 equates hatred with murder.

– Anger that nurses grudges incubates the devil’s work (Ephesians 4:26-27).

• Unrestrained works of the flesh

Galatians 5:19-21 lists sexual immorality, idolatry, witchcraft, fits of rage, envy, drunkenness—“those who practice such things will not inherit the kingdom of God.”

• Opposition to righteousness

2 Timothy 3:1-5 details end-times traits: lovers of self, proud, abusive, lovers of pleasure rather than God.

– Devils’ children “cannot please God” (Romans 8:8).


Practical Moves to Step Away from Devilish Patterns

• Abide continually in Christ (1 John 2:28)

– Regular Scripture intake, prayer, and worship keep the heart soft.

• Confess sin immediately (1 John 1:9)

– Darkness loses power when dragged into the light.

• Choose active love

– Seek concrete ways to serve believers and unbelievers alike (John 13:35).

• Walk in the Spirit (Galatians 5:16)

– Yielding moment-by-moment crowds out the flesh.

• Guard speech fiercely (Ephesians 4:29)

– Replace lies and gossip with truth and edification.

• Cultivate humility and submission (James 4:6-7)

– “Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.”

• Stay alert to spiritual warfare (1 Peter 5:8-9)

– Recognize temptations as strategic assaults, not random feelings.

• Fellowship faithfully with believers (Hebrews 10:24-25)

– Mutual encouragement and accountability reinforce godly habits.


Encouragement for Daily Victory

• Christ came “to destroy the works of the devil” (1 John 3:8).

• The indwelling Spirit is “greater than the one in the world” (1 John 4:4).

• Consistent dependence on that power keeps us living as unmistakable children of God.

What other scriptures emphasize loving others as a sign of faith?
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