How can we identify "capable men" in our church community today? Rooted in Exodus 18:21 “But select capable men … men who fear God, trustworthy men who hate dishonest gain”. The verse gives three clear touchpoints: reverence, reliability, and righteous motives. Moses was told to spot these qualities first, then assign responsibility. Core Traits God Highlights • Fear of God – a man whose decisions show he answers to Someone higher than himself (Proverbs 1:7; Acts 5:29). • Trustworthy character – his word consistently matches his walk (1 Timothy 3:7). • Hatred of dishonest gain – money and power never outrank integrity (1 Peter 5:2–3). • Competence to lead – able to handle “thousands, hundreds, fifties, and tens,” meaning skill scales with assignment (Proverbs 24:5). Translating Those Traits Today • Worship habits: he’s present, engaged, and eager to grow in Scripture. • Reputation at home: wife and children speak of steady, loving leadership (1 Timothy 3:4). • Work ethic: bosses and coworkers call him dependable, not just “nice at church.” • Financial honesty: no shady side deals, late bills, or secret addictions. • Relational fruit: peacemaking, courage to confront sin, willingness to serve (Galatians 5:22-23). • Humility under authority: gladly takes correction and submits to elders (Hebrews 13:17). Where to Look in Congregational Life • Small-group circles: watch who naturally shepherds discussion and follows through on needs. • Prayer gatherings: see who prays with reverence and confidentiality. • Crisis moments: observe who stays calm, offers Scripture-anchored counsel, and sacrifices time. • Service projects: note who tackles the unglamorous tasks without grumbling. • Giving records (where appropriate): generosity often reveals a heart detached from dishonest gain. Practical Steps for Discernment 1. Observe over time—character is revealed in patterns, not snapshots (Matthew 7:16). 2. Seek corroboration—ask family, coworkers, and ministry leaders for honest feedback. 3. Test in smaller roles—assign limited oversight; evaluate faithfulness (Luke 16:10). 4. Confirm with Scripture—measure every trait against passages like Acts 6:3 and Titus 1:7-9. 5. Lay on hands publicly only after unity among elders and congregation (1 Timothy 5:22). Why It Matters Capable men guard doctrine, shepherd people, and model holiness. When a church identifies and releases them, the load lightens, the body matures, and God’s name is honored—just as Jethro promised Moses (Exodus 18:23). |
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