How can we discern wise counsel from foolish advice in our own lives? Rehoboam’s Cautionary Tale “But Rehoboam rejected the advice of the elders and took counsel from the young men who had grown up with him and served him.” — 2 Chronicles 10:8 • Rehoboam stands at a crossroads: seasoned elders on one side, untested peers on the other. • His choice splits the kingdom, showing that whom we listen to shapes our future. What Sets Wise Counsel Apart? • Rooted in God’s Word — never contradicts Scripture (Psalm 19:7; 2 Timothy 3:16). • Seeks God’s glory, not personal advantage (1 Corinthians 10:31). • Comes from proven faithfulness and experience (Proverbs 20:29). • Offers constructive truth, even when it stings (Proverbs 27:6). • Confirmed by multiple godly voices (Proverbs 15:22). Red Flags of Foolish Advice • Ignores or twists Scripture to fit a preference. • Appeals mainly to ego, comfort, or popularity (Galatians 1:10). • Lacks accountability or transparency. • Comes from impulsive, untested sources (Proverbs 14:15). • Produces confusion, strife, or division (James 3:14-16). Testing Counsel: A Simple Checklist 1. Scripture Alignment: Does this advice line up with clear biblical teaching? 2. Character of the Adviser: Do they exhibit the fruit of the Spirit (Galatians 5:22-23)? 3. Prayerful Confirmation: Have I asked God for wisdom? “If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God…” (James 1:5). 4. Community Witness: Do other mature believers affirm or caution against it? 5. Long-Term Consequences: Will this path draw me and others closer to Christ? Practical Steps for Everyday Decisions • Spend regular time in Scripture so counterfeit counsel stands out. • Cultivate relationships with mature believers before crises hit. • Pause before acting; haste often bypasses discernment (Proverbs 19:2). • Keep a humble heart, willing to be corrected (Proverbs 9:8-9). • Review decisions periodically; course-correct quickly when fruit shows otherwise. Living It Out Walk with the wise, and you’ll grow wise too (Proverbs 13:20). As you saturate your mind with truth and surround yourself with godly voices, discerning wise counsel becomes a natural, Spirit-led reflex—guarding your steps and guiding you into God’s best. |
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