Trusting God's plans vs. expectations?
How can we trust God's plans when they differ from our expectations?

Setting the Scene

“And Joseph took both of them—with Ephraim in his right hand toward Israel’s left hand.”

• Joseph lines up his sons so the firstborn, Manasseh, will receive the dominant right-hand blessing.

• Everything seems orderly, sensible, and exactly what a father would expect.

• Yet in the very next verse Jacob will cross his arms, stunning Joseph and upending the plan Joseph thought was perfect.


Our Expectations Meet God’s Arrangements

• We often arrange life the way Joseph arranged his sons—logical, responsible, prepared.

• God may still “cross His arms,” redirecting our careful plans to fulfill a purpose we cannot yet see.

• The moment feels confusing, but it is not random; it is purposeful, loving, and wise.


What Jacob’s Crossed Hands Teach Us

• God’s sovereignty overrides human custom (Genesis 48:14–20).

• He values purpose over precedent; Ephraim was chosen for a larger role in Israel’s history.

• Blessing is not lost when plans change—both sons are blessed, just not in the order Joseph expected.

• Joseph learns that submission to God’s wisdom is safer than insisting on his own.


Walking in Trust When Plans Shift

• Remember His character: perfect love and absolute wisdom never collide.

• Recall past faithfulness: Joseph could look back on pits, prisons, and promotions and see God’s hand.

• Release tight control: hold plans loosely so they can be adjusted without resentment.

• Respond with obedience: Joseph did not pull the boys away; he allowed the blessing to stand.

• Rest in assurance: God’s rearrangements aim for greater fruitfulness than our forecasts.


Anchors From the Rest of Scripture

• “For My thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways My ways, declares the LORD.” (Isaiah 55:8)

• “And we know that God works all things together for the good of those who love Him.” (Romans 8:28)

• “Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding.” (Proverbs 3:5)

• “In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight.” (Proverbs 3:6)

• “For I know the plans I have for you—plans for welfare and not for disaster.” (Jeremiah 29:11)

• “To Him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine.” (Ephesians 3:20)


Living the Lesson Today

• Keep scheduling, planning, and stewarding—Joseph’s preparation was commendable.

• Stay ready to pivot the moment God signals a different arrangement.

• Measure success by faithfulness, not by whether events match your blueprint.

• Celebrate that when God “crosses His arms,” He is positioning blessings beyond anything you could arrange.

What other biblical instances show the younger being favored over the elder?
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