Why does Jesus say not to call anyone "father"?
Why does Jesus instruct against calling anyone on earth "father"?

Verse in Context

Matthew 23:9: “And do not call anyone on earth your father, for you have one Father, who is in heaven.”

• Spoken during Jesus’ public rebuke of the scribes and Pharisees (Matthew 23:1-36).

• Follows commands against titles of honor that elevate leaders—“Rabbi” (v. 8) and “Instructor” (v. 10).


Understanding “Father” in Jewish Culture

• Rabbis were often addressed as “my father,” expressing total allegiance to their teaching.

• Discipleship sometimes crossed the line from respect to near-reverence, rivaling devotion owed only to God (cf. Malachi 1:6).

• Jesus confronts this culture of elevating human teachers to spiritual supremacy.


Jesus’ Central Point

• Exclusive Fatherhood of God: Only the heavenly Father possesses ultimate authority over souls (Isaiah 63:16; James 1:17).

• Guarding against idolatry of leadership: Titles can create a hierarchy that shifts glory from God to man (Acts 10:25-26).

• Cultivating humility: “The greatest among you shall be your servant” (Matthew 23:11). Rejecting self-exalting titles keeps leaders lowly and followers free.


What It Does Not Forbid

Scripture elsewhere uses “father” legitimately:

• Biological fathers—Ex 20:12; Ephesians 6:2.

• Spiritual mentorship—Paul writes, “For in Christ Jesus I became your father through the gospel” (1 Colossians 4:15; see also 1 Thessalonians 2:11).

• The difference: descriptive acknowledgment versus honorific that claims divine authority. Jesus prohibits the latter.


How to Apply Today

• Guard the heart: Resist exalting any pastor, teacher, or tradition to a place that clouds direct dependence on God.

• Choose language wisely: Titles are not sinful in themselves, yet they must not communicate ultimate authority or foster celebrity culture.

• Cultivate servant leadership: Leaders point others upward, not to themselves (1 Peter 5:2-4).

• Keep family honor balanced: Love and obey earthly parents, while recognizing the Father in heaven as the source of all parenthood and authority (Ephesians 3:14-15).

How does Matthew 23:9 guide us in addressing spiritual leaders today?
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