Wine restraint: leader self-control?
What does "not indulging in much wine" teach about self-control for leaders?

The Verse in Focus

“Deacons likewise must be dignified, not double-tongued, not indulging in much wine, not greedy for money.” (1 Timothy 3:8)


The Heart Behind the Command

• “Not indulging in much wine” spotlights the quality of self-control—an essential trait for anyone entrusted with spiritual oversight.

• The stipulation does not condemn wine itself; it condemns excess. The issue is mastery: leaders must never be mastered by any appetite.

• By singling out wine, Paul offers a concrete example of a larger principle: if a leader can restrain a common, socially accepted pleasure, he can be trusted to restrain himself in greater matters.


Why Wine? A Case Study in Self-Mastery

• Wine was readily available in first-century culture and often consumed at meals and festivals. Its abuse was likewise common.

• Refusing over-indulgence protected a leader from:

– dulled mental and spiritual alertness (Proverbs 31:4-5)

– impaired judgment that harms God’s people (Isaiah 28:7)

– a damaged public witness (Romans 14:21)

• The call to moderation over wine becomes a template for every other bodily desire—food, entertainment, money, sexual purity.


Scripture’s Wider Chorus on Self-Control

Proverbs 20:1 – “Wine is a mocker, strong drink a brawler, and whoever is led astray by them is not wise.”

Ephesians 5:18 – “Do not get drunk on wine, which leads to reckless indiscretion. Instead, be filled with the Spirit.”

Titus 1:7-8 – An overseer must be “self-controlled, upright, holy, and disciplined.”

Galatians 5:22-23 – Self-control is listed among the Spirit’s fruit, marking a life under His governance.


Practical Outworking for Today’s Leaders

• Maintain clear physical and digital boundaries on any potentially controlling influence (e.g., alcohol, food, screen time).

• Model restraint publicly and privately; secrecy erodes credibility.

• Stay alert to subtle drift—occasional indulgence can quietly become habitual.

• Invite accountable relationships; a transparent leader is a protected leader.

• Prioritize Spirit-filled living over self-saturated comforts; the Spirit empowers what the flesh resists.


Why Self-Control Safeguards Ministry

• Sustains clear thinking for wise decision-making.

• Protects the flock from stumbling over a leader’s liberty.

• Guards the leader’s own soul from bondage.

• Preserves the testimony of Christ before a watching world.

• Positions the leader to exemplify the gospel’s transforming power.


The Takeaway

When Paul instructs that deacons be “not indulging in much wine,” he raises a banner over every area of life: a leader governed by the Spirit must never be governed by any appetite. The enduring lesson is simple yet searching—true leaders prove their fitness for service by daily choosing mastery over indulgence, so that Christ alone reigns.

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