Numbers 20:14
From Kadesh, Moses sent messengers to tell the king of Edom, "This is what your brother Israel says: You know all the hardship that has befallen us,
From Kadesh, Moses sent messengers to tell the king of Edom,

Kadesh served as a major encampment during Israel’s wilderness years and was the setting for Miriam’s death and Moses’ sin at the waters of Meribah. Moses approached Edom through recognized diplomatic channels rather than presuming a right of passage. Edom occupied territory south and east of the Dead Sea, lying along Israel’s most direct route toward Canaan.

Jdg 11:17 Then Israel sent messengers to the king of Edom,…
Deu 2:4-5 You will pass through the territory of your brothers…
Gen 32:3 Jacob sent messengers ahead of him to his brother Esau…

“This is what your brother Israel says:

Israel appealed to the common ancestry of Jacob and Esau, the twin sons of Isaac. Though Edom and Israel had long-standing tensions, Moses addressed Edom as a brother nation, seeking peace rather than conflict. The appeal recalled God’s command that Israel not seize Edom’s land, for He had given it to Esau’s descendants as their inheritance.

Deu 23:7-8 Do not despise an Edomite, for he is your brother.…
Oba 1:10 Because of the violence against your brother Jacob,…
Amo 1:11 This is what the LORD says: “For three transgressions…

You know all the hardship that has befallen us,

Israel’s history of slavery in Egypt, deliverance through the exodus, and years of wandering was widely known among the surrounding nations. Moses recounted their suffering not to accuse Edom, but to explain Israel’s need and to appeal for a peaceful passage. Israel’s hardships also bore witness to the faithfulness of God, who had preserved His people through judgment, wilderness testing, and repeated rebellion.

Exo 18:8 Then Moses recounted to his father-in-law…
Deu 8:2 Remember that these forty years the LORD your God led you…
Deu 26:7 So we called out to the LORD, the God of our fathers;…

Persons / Places / Events
1. Moses
The leader of the Israelites, chosen by God to lead His people out of Egypt and through the wilderness.

2. Messengers
Individuals sent by Moses to communicate with the king of Edom.

3. King of Edom
The ruler of Edom, a nation descended from Esau, Jacob's brother.

4. Israel
Refers to the nation of Israel, the descendants of Jacob, who are journeying to the Promised Land.

5. Kadesh
A significant location in the wilderness where the Israelites camped and from where Moses sent the message.
Teaching Points
Understanding Family Ties
The message from Moses to the king of Edom begins with a reminder of their shared ancestry. This highlights the importance of recognizing and respecting familial bonds, even when relationships are strained.

Seeking Peaceful Resolution
Moses' approach to Edom demonstrates a desire for peaceful negotiation rather than conflict. As believers, we are called to pursue peace and reconciliation in our relationships (Romans 12:18).

Acknowledging Hardship
Moses openly acknowledges the hardships faced by Israel. This teaches us the value of honesty and transparency in communication, especially when seeking assistance or understanding from others.

Respecting God's Sovereignty
The Israelites' journey and their interactions with other nations were under God's sovereign plan. Trusting in God's guidance and timing is crucial in our own life's journey.

Historical Context Matters
Understanding the historical and familial context of biblical events enriches our comprehension of the Scriptures and their application to our lives.
Bible Study Questions
1. How does the shared ancestry between Israel and Edom influence their interactions, and what can we learn about handling family conflicts from this passage?

2. In what ways does Moses' approach to the king of Edom reflect principles of peaceful conflict resolution found in the New Testament?

3. How can acknowledging our hardships, as Moses did, be beneficial in our relationships and communication with others?

4. What does this passage teach us about trusting in God's sovereignty and timing, especially when facing obstacles or opposition?

5. How does understanding the historical context of Israel and Edom's relationship enhance our interpretation of this passage and its application to our lives today?
Connections to Other Scriptures
Genesis 25:23
This verse speaks of the prophecy given to Rebekah about her twins, Jacob and Esau, who would become two nations. This background is crucial for understanding the relationship between Israel and Edom.

Deuteronomy 2:4-5
God instructs the Israelites not to provoke Edom because He has given Mount Seir to Esau's descendants. This highlights the historical and familial ties between the two nations.

Obadiah 1:10-12
This passage speaks of Edom's violence against Israel, providing context for the strained relationship between the two nations.
Retribution ConsummatedJ. Parker, D. D.Numbers 20:14-21
The Claim of Kinship RejectedD. Young Numbers 20:14-21
People
Aaron, Egyptians, Eleazar, Israelites, Miriam, Moses
Places
Edom, Egypt, Kadesh-barnea, King's Highway, Meribah, Mount Hor, Zin
Topics
Adversity, Befallen, Brother, Edom, Hardship, Hardships, Hast, Kadesh, Messengers, Saying, Says, Thus, Travail, Trouble
Dictionary of Bible Themes
Numbers 20:14

     5408   messenger
     5661   brothers

Library
August 17. "Speak Ye unto the Rock" (Num. xx. 8).
"Speak ye unto the Rock" (Num. xx. 8). The Holy Ghost is very sensitive, as love always is. You can conquer a wild beast by blows and chains, but you cannot conquer a woman's heart that way, or win the love of a sensitive nature; that must be wooed by the delicate touches of trust and affection. So the Holy Ghost has to be taken by a faith as delicate and sensitive as the gentle heart with whom it is coming in touch. One thought of unbelief, one expression of impatient distrust or fear, will instantly
Rev. A. B. Simpson—Days of Heaven Upon Earth

The Waters of Meribah
'Then came the children of Israel, even the whole congregation, into the desert of Zin in the first month: and the people abode in Kadesh; and Miriam died there, and was buried there. 2. And there was no water for the congregation: and they gathered themselves together against Moses and against Aaron. 3. And the people chode with Moses, and spake, saying, Would God that we had died when our brethren died before the Lord! 4. And why have ye brought up the congregation of the Lord into this wilderness,
Alexander Maclaren—Expositions of Holy Scripture

Kadesh. Rekam, and that Double. Inquiry is Made, Whether the Doubling it in the Maps is Well Done.
The readers of the eastern interpreters will observe, that Kadesh is rendered by all Rekam, or in a sound very near it. In the Chaldee, it is 'Rekam': in the Syriac, 'Rekem': in the Arabic, 'Rakim'... There are two places noted by the name Rekam in the very bounds of the land,--to wit, the southern and eastern: that is, a double Kadesh. I. Of Kadesh, or Rekam, in the south part, there is no doubt. II. Of it, in the eastern part, there is this mention: "From Rekam to the east, and Rekam is as the
John Lightfoot—From the Talmud and Hebraica

The Baptist's Inquiry and Jesus' Discourse Suggested Thereby.
(Galilee.) ^A Matt. XI. 2-30; ^C Luke VII. 18-35. ^c 18 And the disciples of John told him of all these things. ^a 2 Now when John had heard in the prison the works of Christ, he sent by his disciples ^c 19 And John calling unto him two of his disciples sent them unto the Lord [John had been cast into prison about December, a.d. 27, and it was now after the Passover, possibly in May or June, a.d. 28. Herod Antipas had cast John into prison because John had reproved him for taking his brother's wife.
J. W. McGarvey—The Four-Fold Gospel

Epistle xxviii. To Augustine, Bishop of the Angli .
To Augustine, Bishop of the Angli [136] . Gregory to Augustine, &c. Glory to God in the highest, and on earth peace to men of good will (Luke ii. 14); because a grain of wheat, falling into the earth, has died, that it might not reign in heaven alone; even He by whose death we live, by whose weakness we are made strong, by whose suffering we are rescued from suffering, through whose love we seek in Britain for brethren whom we knew not, by whose gift we find those whom without knowing them we sought.
Saint Gregory the Great—the Epistles of Saint Gregory the Great

Travelling in Palestine --Roads, Inns, Hospitality, Custom-House Officers, Taxation, Publicans
It was the very busiest road in Palestine, on which the publican Levi Matthew sat at the receipt of "custom," when our Lord called him to the fellowship of the Gospel, and he then made that great feast to which he invited his fellow-publicans, that they also might see and hear Him in Whom he had found life and peace (Luke 5:29). For, it was the only truly international road of all those which passed through Palestine; indeed, it formed one of the great highways of the world's commerce. At the time
Alfred Edersheim—Sketches of Jewish Social Life

Peræa to Bethany. Raising of Lazarus.
^D John XI. 1-46. ^d 1 Now a certain man was sick, Lazarus of Bethany, the village of Mary and her sister Martha. [For Bethany and the sisters, see p. 478.] 2 And it was that Mary who anointed the Lord with ointment, and wiped his feet with her hair [John xii. 3 ], whose brother Lazarus was sick. [The anointing had not yet taken place, as John himself shows. For a similar anticipation see Matt. x. 4. There are five prominent Marys in the New Testament: those of Nazareth, Magdala and Bethany; the
J. W. McGarvey—The Four-Fold Gospel

The Hebrews and the Philistines --Damascus
THE ISRAELITES IN THE LAND OF CANAAN: THE JUDGES--THE PHILISTINES AND THE HEBREW KINGDOM--SAUL, DAVID, SOLOMON, THE DEFECTION OF THE TEN TRIBES--THE XXIst EGYPTIAN DYNASTY--SHESHONQ OR SHISHAK DAMASCUS. The Hebrews in the desert: their families, clans, and tribes--The Amorites and the Hebrews on the left bank of the Jordan--The conquest of Canaan and the native reaction against the Hebrews--The judges, Ehud, Deborah, Jerubbaal or Gideon and the Manassite supremacy; Abimelech, Jephihdh. The Philistines,
G. Maspero—History Of Egypt, Chaldaea, Syria, Babylonia, and Assyria, V 6

Backsliding.
"I will heal their backsliding; I will love them freely: for Mine anger is turned away."--Hosea xiv. 4. There are two kinds of backsliders. Some have never been converted: they have gone through the form of joining a Christian community and claim to be backsliders; but they never have, if I may use the expression, "slid forward." They may talk of backsliding; but they have never really been born again. They need to be treated differently from real back-sliders--those who have been born of the incorruptible
Dwight L. Moody—The Way to God and How to Find It

Numbers
Like the last part of Exodus, and the whole of Leviticus, the first part of Numbers, i.-x. 28--so called,[1] rather inappropriately, from the census in i., iii., (iv.), xxvi.--is unmistakably priestly in its interests and language. Beginning with a census of the men of war (i.) and the order of the camp (ii.), it devotes specific attention to the Levites, their numbers and duties (iii., iv.). Then follow laws for the exclusion of the unclean, v. 1-4, for determining the manner and amount of restitution
John Edgar McFadyen—Introduction to the Old Testament

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