Courteous
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The term "courteous" refers to the quality of being polite, respectful, and considerate in manner. In the context of biblical teachings, courtesy is an expression of love and humility, reflecting the character of Christ in interpersonal relationships. The Bible encourages believers to exhibit courteous behavior as part of their Christian witness and as a demonstration of the transformative power of the Holy Spirit in their lives.

Biblical References:

1. 1 Peter 3:8 : "Finally, all of you, be like-minded and sympathetic, love as brothers, be tenderhearted and humble." While the Berean Standard Bible does not use the word "courteous" directly, the qualities mentioned in this verse—being tenderhearted and humble—are closely associated with courteous behavior. The apostle Peter exhorts believers to live in harmony, showing empathy and kindness to one another, which are essential components of courtesy.

2. Ephesians 4:32 : "Be kind and tenderhearted to one another, forgiving each other just as in Christ God forgave you." This verse highlights the importance of kindness and tenderheartedness, which are integral to being courteous. The call to forgive as Christ forgave underscores the depth of humility and grace that should characterize Christian interactions.

3. Colossians 4:6 : "Let your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer everyone." Gracious speech is a hallmark of courtesy. The apostle Paul instructs believers to communicate with grace and wisdom, ensuring that their words are edifying and respectful, thus reflecting a courteous demeanor.

4. Philippians 2:3-4 : "Do nothing out of selfish ambition or empty pride, but in humility consider others more important than yourselves. Each of you should look not only to your own interests, but also to the interests of others." This passage emphasizes humility and selflessness, which are foundational to courteous behavior. By valuing others above oneself, a believer demonstrates the courtesy that stems from a Christ-centered life.

Theological Insights:

Courtesy, as a Christian virtue, is deeply rooted in the biblical principle of love. Jesus Christ, through His life and teachings, exemplified the ultimate standard of courtesy. His interactions with others, regardless of their social status or background, were marked by compassion, respect, and a genuine concern for their well-being. Christians are called to emulate Christ's example, allowing His love to guide their actions and interactions.

The practice of courtesy is not merely a social nicety but a reflection of the believer's inner transformation. It is an outward expression of the fruit of the Spirit, particularly love, kindness, and gentleness (Galatians 5:22-23). By being courteous, Christians bear witness to the character of Christ and the reality of His kingdom.

Practical Application:

In daily life, courtesy can be manifested in various ways, such as listening attentively, speaking kindly, showing gratitude, and being considerate of others' needs and feelings. It involves a conscious effort to put others first and to treat them with the dignity and respect they deserve as fellow image-bearers of God.

In the church community, courtesy fosters unity and strengthens relationships. It helps to create an environment where love and mutual respect thrive, enabling believers to work together effectively for the advancement of the Gospel. In the broader society, courteous behavior can serve as a powerful testimony to the transformative power of Christ, drawing others to the faith through the example of a life lived in accordance with biblical principles.
Webster's Revised Unabridged Dictionary
(a.) of courtesy; characterized by courtesy; civil; obliging; well bred; polite; affable; complaisant.
Greek
5391. philophron -- courteous.
... 5390, 5391. philophron. 5392 . courteous. Part of ... courteous behavior.
Word Origin variant reading for tapeinophron, qv. courteous. ...
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791. asteios -- of the town, by impl. courteous, elegant
... courteous, elegant. Part of Speech: Adjective Transliteration: asteios Phonetic
Spelling: (as-ti'-os) Short Definition: elegant, pretty, fair, fine, beautiful ...
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5364. philanthropos -- humanely, kindly
... an adverb) -- properly, friendly; describing the kindness shown by (literally)
"a (5384 ) of (444 )." That is, treating others with courteous respect because ...
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Library

A Lesson in Courtesy
... A LESSON IN COURTESY. I read a story recently of how a young man got his
start in life through being courteous. This young man was ...
/.../chidley/fifty-two story talks to boys and girls/a lesson in courtesy.htm

"I was Taught that I Should See Mine Own Sin, and not Other Men's ...
... Also our courteous Lord in the same time He shewed full surely and mightily the
endlessness and the unchangeability of His love; and, afterward, that by His ...
/.../julian/revelations of divine love/chapter lxxix i was taught.htm

"True Love Teacheth us that we Should Hate Sin Only for Love. " " ...
... THIS is a sovereign friendship of our courteous Lord that He keepeth us so tenderly
while we be in sin; and furthermore He toucheth us full privily and sheweth ...
/.../julian/revelations of divine love/chapter xl true love teacheth.htm

Felicitous Phrases
... careful, reasoned, and courteous. cautious, prudent, and decisive. ... courage,
patience, and honesty. courteous, patient, and indefatigable. ...
/.../kleiser/fifteen thousand useful phrases/section iii felicitous phrases.htm

"Accuse not Thyself Overmuch, Deeming that Thy Tribulation and Thy ...
... manner of peril. For our courteous Lord willeth that we should be as homely
with Him as heart may think or soul may desire. But [let ...
/.../julian/revelations of divine love/chapter lxxvii accuse not thyself.htm

The Birth of Saint George.
... Forest. As he was a courteous knight, and had spoken the Enchantress fair,
so he expected a courteous and satisfactory reply. What ...
/.../kingston/the seven champions of christendom/chapter one the birth of.htm

"He is the Head, and we be his Members. " "Therefore Our Father ...
... AND then our Courteous Lord answered in shewing full mistily a wonderful example
of a Lord that hath a Servant: and He gave me sight to my understanding of both ...
/.../julian/revelations of divine love/chapter li he is the.htm

The War in Heaven.
... in righteousness, and that He Himself is faithful and true, whoever else is not;
that He is always just, always fair, always honourable and courteous; that He ...
//christianbookshelf.org/kingsley/westminster sermons/sermon xxi the war in.htm

"The Shewing is not Other than of Faith, nor Less nor More"
... And of all the sight it was most comfort to me that our God and Lord that is so
reverend and dreadful, is so homely and courteous: and this most fulfilled me ...
/.../julian/revelations of divine love/chapter vii the shewing is.htm

"Sin is the Sharpest Scourge. . . . By Contrition we are Made ...
... And so on the contrary-wise, as we be punished here with sorrow and penance, we
shall be rewarded in heaven by the courteous love of our Lord God Almighty, who ...
/.../julian/revelations of divine love/chapter xxxix sin is the.htm

Thesaurus
Courteous (2 Occurrences)
...Courteous (2 Occurrences). ... (WEY). 1 Peter 3:8 Finally, be all like-minded, compassionate,
loving as brothers, tenderhearted, courteous, (WEB KJV WBS YLT). ...
/c/courteous.htm - 7k

Pitiful (5 Occurrences)
... oiktirmon); eusplagchnos, well-hearted," "compassionate," "full of pity," occurs
in 1 Peter 3:8, "Love as brethren, be pitiful, be courteous," the Revised ...
/p/pitiful.htm - 9k

Courteously (2 Occurrences)
... Noah Webster's Dictionary (adv.) In a courteous manner. Multi-Version Concordance
Courteously (2 Occurrences). Acts 27:3 And the next day we touched at Sidon. ...
/c/courteously.htm - 7k

Compassion (145 Occurrences)
... James 3:17 The wisdom from above is first of all pure, then peaceful, courteous,
not self-willed, full of compassion and kind actions, free from favouritism ...
/c/compassion.htm - 42k

Unity (9 Occurrences)
... NIV). 1 Peter 3:8 Finally, be all like-minded, compassionate, loving as
brothers, tenderhearted, courteous, (See RSV). 2 Chronicles ...
/u/unity.htm - 10k

Urbane (1 Occurrence)
... Noah Webster's Dictionary (a.) Courteous in manners; polite; refined; elegant. Int.
Standard Bible Encyclopedia. URBANE. ur'-ban, -ban'. See URBANUS. ...
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Like-minded (5 Occurrences)
... (WEB DBY WBS YLT). 1 Peter 3:8 Finally, be all like-minded, compassionate, loving
as brothers, tenderhearted, courteous, (WEB). Likeminded, ...
/l/like-minded.htm - 7k

Gallant (1 Occurrence)
... 2. (a.) Showy; splendid; magnificent; gay; well-dressed. 3. (a.) Polite
and attentive to ladies; courteous to women; chivalrous. ...
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Insincerity (5 Occurrences)
... James 3:17 The wisdom from above is first of all pure, then peaceful, courteous,
not self-willed, full of compassion and kind actions, free from favouritism ...
/i/insincerity.htm - 8k

Favouritism (1 Occurrence)
... James 3:17 The wisdom from above is first of all pure, then peaceful, courteous,
not self-willed, full of compassion and kind actions, free from favouritism ...
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Resources
What does the Bible say about empathy? | GotQuestions.org

What is chivalry? Does the Bible instruct men to be chivalrous? | GotQuestions.org

What does it mean that love is not rude (1 Corinthians 13:5)? | GotQuestions.org

Courteous: Dictionary and Thesaurus | Clyx.com

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