The concept of "courting" in the Bible is not explicitly mentioned as a formal process akin to modern dating or courtship practices. However, the Scriptures provide numerous examples and principles that can be applied to the idea of courting, particularly in the context of seeking a spouse with intentionality and purity.

Biblical Examples of Courting:

1. Isaac and Rebekah: The account of Isaac and Rebekah in Genesis 24 is often cited as an example of a divinely orchestrated courtship. Abraham sends his servant to find a wife for Isaac, emphasizing the importance of choosing a spouse from among his own people. The servant's prayerful approach and Rebekah's willingness to go with him highlight the role of divine guidance and family involvement in the process. Genesis 24:67 states, "And Isaac brought her into the tent of his mother Sarah and took Rebekah as his wife. Isaac loved her and was comforted after his mother’s death."

2. Jacob and Rachel: Jacob's pursuit of Rachel in Genesis 29 demonstrates a more personal and emotional aspect of courting. Jacob works for seven years to marry Rachel, illustrating the value of patience and commitment. Genesis 29:20 notes, "So Jacob served seven years for Rachel, yet it seemed but a few days because of his love for her."

3. Ruth and Boaz: The relationship between Ruth and Boaz in the Book of Ruth is another example of a courtship that is marked by integrity and respect. Ruth's loyalty to Naomi and Boaz's kindness and protection towards Ruth reflect the virtues of faithfulness and honor. Ruth 3:10-11 records Boaz's response to Ruth's proposal: "Then Boaz said, 'May the LORD bless you, my daughter. You have shown more kindness now than before, because you have not run after the younger men, whether rich or poor. And now do not be afraid, my daughter. I will do for you whatever you request, since all my fellow townspeople know that you are a woman of noble character.'"

Principles of Courting:

1. Purity and Holiness: The Bible emphasizes the importance of maintaining purity in relationships. 1 Thessalonians 4:3-4 instructs, "For it is God’s will that you should be holy: You must abstain from sexual immorality; each of you must know how to control his own body in holiness and honor."

2. Seeking God’s Will: Courting should be approached with a desire to seek God’s will and guidance. Proverbs 3:5-6 advises, "Trust in the LORD with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight."

3. Wise Counsel: Involving family and seeking wise counsel is a biblical principle seen in many courtship narratives. Proverbs 15:22 states, "Plans fail for lack of counsel, but with many advisers they succeed."

4. Commitment and Love: The ultimate goal of courting is to establish a lifelong commitment based on love and mutual respect. Ephesians 5:25 instructs husbands, "Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave Himself up for her."

While the Bible does not provide a detailed blueprint for modern courtship, these examples and principles offer guidance for those seeking to honor God in their relationships.(imp. & p. p.) of Court.

On Eutropius, the Eunuch, Patrician and Consul.
... invented by your cooks? where are they who courted your power and did and
said everything to win your favour? They were all mere ...
/.../chrysostom/on the priesthood/homily i on eutropius the.htm

Life of Bunyan
... devotee; indeed, after Bunyan's own graphic and characteristic narrative, the task
on which we are now entering is one which, as we would have courted it the ...
//christianbookshelf.org/hamilton/life of bunyan/life of bunyan.htm

Paracelsus {13}
... who meddled with vain dreams about the occult sciences, alchemy, astrology, magic,
the cabala, and so forth, who were reputed magicians, courted and feared for ...
/.../kingsley/historical lectures and essays/paracelsus 13.htm

George Buchanan, Scholar
... If he chose to sell himself to this patron and to that, he was used and thrown away:
if he chose to remain in honourable independence, he was courted and feared ...
/.../kingsley/historical lectures and essays/george buchanan scholar.htm

The Manner in which Christ Served.
... We like to boast of the crowds that attend our ministry. But the perfect
Servant of God never courted popularity, He shunned it! ...
//christianbookshelf.org/pink/why four gospels/iii the manner in which.htm

Thoughts Upon Self-Denyal.
... It is true, we live in an Age wherein Christianity in the general notion of it is
highly courted, all Sects and Parties amongst us making their Pretences to it ...
/.../beveridge/private thoughts upon a christian life/thoughts upon self-denyal.htm

The Perfect Heart.
... He went down to Assyria and courted Ben-hadad, the king of Assyria, and said, "Come
and help me, that my enemies may depart, for I am sore pressed." Ah! ...
//christianbookshelf.org/booth/godliness/chapter viii the perfect heart.htm

Among the People, and with the Pharisees
... Courted or feared, shunned or flattered, reverently looked up to or laughed at,
he was equally a power everywhere, both ecclesiastically and politically, as ...
/.../edersheim/sketches of jewish social life/chapter 13 among the people.htm

Death in Life
... Young women, how often do they sell themselves and their own modesty, just for the
pleasure of being flattered and courted, and of getting a few fine clothes. ...
/.../kingsley/sermons for the times/sermon xvii death in life.htm

The Crisis in Galilee.
... He was in danger of being accounted the most skilful metropolitan physician; or
in the greater danger of being courted by politicians as a likely popular leader ...
/.../the expositors bible the gospel of st john vol i/xv the crisis in galilee.htm

Courted (1 Occurrence)
... Noah Webster's Dictionary (imp. & pp) of Court. Multi-Version Concordance
Courted (1 Occurrence). Galatians 4:18 It is always an ...
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Courteous (2 Occurrences)

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Honourable (72 Occurrences)
... (WEY). Galatians 4:18 It is always an honourable thing to be courted in an honourable
cause; always, and not only when I am with you, my children-- (WEY). ...
/h/honourable.htm - 28k

Court (172 Occurrences)

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Nero
... in his tastes, particular about the arrangement of his hair and proud of his voice,
his greatest fault was inordinate vanity which courted applause for ...
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