Holding Your Tongue
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Definition and Importance
Holding one's tongue refers to the practice of exercising self-control over one's speech, choosing silence or restraint over speaking impulsively or harshly. This concept is deeply rooted in biblical teachings, emphasizing the power of words and the importance of wisdom and discretion in communication.

Biblical Foundations
The Bible provides numerous exhortations and examples regarding the importance of controlling one's speech. Proverbs 10:19 states, "When words are many, sin is unavoidable, but he who restrains his lips is wise." This verse highlights the potential for sin in excessive talking and the wisdom found in restraint.

James 1:19 further instructs believers, "My beloved brothers, understand this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to anger." This passage underscores the value of listening over speaking and the connection between speech and emotional control.

The Power of Words
Scripture acknowledges the profound impact words can have, both positively and negatively. Proverbs 18:21 declares, "Life and death are in the power of the tongue, and those who love it will eat its fruit." This verse illustrates the dual potential of speech to either build up or destroy.

James 3:5-6 compares the tongue to a small fire that can set a great forest ablaze, warning of its capacity to cause significant harm. The passage reads, "So too the tongue is a small part of the body, but it boasts of great things. Consider how small a spark sets a great forest ablaze. The tongue also is a fire, a world of wickedness among the parts of the body."

Examples of Restraint
The Bible provides examples of individuals who exemplified the virtue of holding their tongue. Jesus Christ, during His trial and crucifixion, demonstrated remarkable restraint. Isaiah 53:7 prophesies, "He was oppressed and afflicted, yet He did not open His mouth." This fulfillment is seen in the Gospels, where Jesus often remained silent in the face of false accusations (Matthew 26:63).

Another example is King David, who, despite being pursued by Saul, refrained from speaking or acting against him. In 1 Samuel 24:10 , David says, "This day you have seen with your own eyes how the LORD delivered you into my hand in the cave. Some urged me to kill you, but I spared you, saying, 'I will not lift my hand against my master, because he is the LORD’s anointed.'"

Practical Application
Believers are encouraged to seek the guidance of the Holy Spirit in controlling their speech. Ephesians 4:29 advises, "Let no unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building up the one in need and bringing grace to those who listen." This directive calls for speech that edifies and imparts grace.

Prayer is also a vital tool in seeking divine assistance for speech control. Psalm 141:3 is a prayerful request: "Set a guard, O LORD, over my mouth; keep watch at the door of my lips." This verse reflects the desire for God's help in maintaining discipline over one's words.

Conclusion
The biblical call to hold one's tongue is a recurring theme that underscores the significance of speech in the life of a believer. Through wisdom, prayer, and the example of Christ, Christians are encouraged to exercise restraint and use their words to glorify God and edify others.
Topical Bible Verses
Psalm 34:13
Keep your tongue from evil, and your lips from speaking guile.
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Breaking with God.
... They are actually holding their sin-soiled hands up into God's face; and He is
compelled to look at ... your tongue ..." the slime of sin is oozing over everything ...
//christianbookshelf.org/gordon/quiet talks on prayer/breaking with god.htm

Letter Lxi. To vigilantius.
... things; according to that which is written "reading all things, holding fast those ...
have learned all these things you will perhaps begin to hold your tongue. ...
/.../jerome/the principal works of st jerome/letter lxi to vigilantius.htm

Acts iv. 23
... viii.) appointed time (he prothesmia), is at hand and I am holding inquisition in
the ... Cast out this fire from your tongue, as you would from a house: this fire ...
/.../chrysostom/homilies on acts and romans/homily xi acts iv 23.htm

Ephesians iv. 25-27
... then that any one of the servants were to take and use it for holding dung. ... Now the
God of peace keep both your mind and your tongue, and fence you with a sure ...
/.../homily xiv ephesians iv 25-27.htm

Psalm CXLVIII.
... your whole selves: that is, let not your tongue and voice ... selves: let your voice,
your life, your deeds, all ... he had found things in heaven holding their peace ...
/.../augustine/exposition on the book of psalms/psalm cxlviii.htm

Whitefield -- the Method of Grace
... verse, "I am full of the fury of the Lord; I am weary with holding in; I ... you will
be calling to all eternity for a drop of water to cool your tongue and shall ...
/.../kleiser/the worlds great sermons volume 3/whitefield the method of.htm

Letter Lxix. (AD 402. )
... He truly proves that he was worthy of holding that office, had ... whom we expect the
richest increase of blessings through your mind and tongue, endowed and ...
/.../augustine/the confessions and letters of st/letter lxix a d 402.htm

Shall we Go?
... Keep your spirit sweet, your tongue gentle and slow, your touch soft and even, your
purpose as ... is the actual obedience in daily round, the holding true to ...
/.../gordon/quiet talks on following the christ/shall we go.htm

Eutyches and Philip in Profundis
... were placed on their wrists, and, with a soldier on either side holding the end ... soldier,'
said Optatus, in a fury; say one word more, and your tongue shall be ...
/.../chapter lvi eutyches and philip.htm

Ninth Commandment
... misrepresentation "insinuation"gossip"equivocation"holding back of ... envying and strife
in your hearts, glory ... In many cases the tongue has murdered its ...
//christianbookshelf.org/moody/weighed and wanting/ninth commandment.htm

Resources
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