Topical Bible: Slander: Effects of Separating Friends

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Slander, as depicted in the Bible, is a grievous sin that can have devastating effects on relationships, particularly among friends. The act of slander involves making false and damaging statements about someone, which can lead to the erosion of trust and the severance of bonds that were once strong and supportive.

The Bible provides clear warnings about the destructive power of slander. In Proverbs 16:28 , it is written, "A perverse man spreads dissension, and a gossip separates close friends." This verse highlights the divisive nature of slander, illustrating how it can drive a wedge between individuals who were once united. The use of the term "perverse" underscores the moral corruption inherent in slanderous behavior, suggesting that it is not merely a social faux pas but a deep-seated ethical failing.

Further emphasizing the destructive potential of slander, Proverbs 17:9 states, "Whoever conceals an offense promotes love, but he who brings it up separates friends." This passage suggests that love and unity are fostered by forgiveness and discretion, whereas the act of bringing up offenses—often through slander—leads to division. The implication is that slander not only harms the individual being spoken about but also damages the fabric of community and friendship.

The New Testament also addresses the issue of slander, urging believers to avoid such behavior. In Ephesians 4:31 , the Apostle Paul exhorts, "Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, outcry and slander, along with every form of malice." Here, slander is listed among other destructive emotions and actions, indicating its potential to harm both the speaker and the community. The call to "get rid" of these behaviors suggests an active effort to cultivate a spirit of peace and reconciliation.

James 4:11 further warns, "Brothers, do not slander one another. Anyone who speaks against his brother or judges him speaks against the law and judges it." This admonition not only highlights the sinfulness of slander but also its broader implications for one's relationship with God's law. By engaging in slander, individuals place themselves in a position of judgment, contrary to the humility and love that should characterize Christian relationships.

The effects of slander in separating friends are not only spiritual but also practical. Trust, once broken, is difficult to restore, and the pain caused by slander can linger long after the words have been spoken. The Bible's consistent message is that slander is antithetical to the love and unity that should define the community of believers. By avoiding slander and promoting forgiveness and understanding, individuals can work towards healing and maintaining the bonds of friendship.

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Proverbs 16:28
A fraudulent man sows strife: and a whisperer separates chief friends.
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Proverbs 17:9
He that covers a transgression seeks love; but he that repeats a matter separates very friends.
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