Pleasing Your Husband
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The concept of pleasing one's husband is deeply rooted in biblical teachings and is often associated with the roles and responsibilities within a Christian marriage. The Bible provides guidance on how a wife can honor and support her husband, fostering a harmonious and God-centered relationship.

Biblical Foundation

The foundation for pleasing one's husband can be traced back to the creation narrative in Genesis. In Genesis 2:18 , God declares, "It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make for him a suitable helper." This verse establishes the role of the wife as a companion and helper, designed to complement and support her husband.

Submission and Respect

A key aspect of pleasing one's husband is the biblical principle of submission. Ephesians 5:22-24 instructs, "Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, His body, of which He is the Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything." This passage emphasizes the importance of respecting the husband's leadership within the marriage, mirroring the relationship between Christ and the church.

Love and Devotion

While submission is a significant theme, love and devotion are equally important. Titus 2:4-5 encourages older women to "train the young women to love their husbands and children, to be self-controlled, pure, managers of their households, kind, and subject to their own husbands, so that the word of God will not be discredited." This instruction highlights the importance of nurturing love and maintaining a peaceful and orderly home environment.

Proverbs 31 Woman

The virtuous woman described in Proverbs 31 serves as an exemplary model for pleasing one's husband. Proverbs 31:10-12 states, "A wife of noble character, who can find? She is far more precious than rubies. The heart of her husband trusts in her, and he will lack nothing of value. She brings him good and not harm all the days of her life." This passage underscores the value of trustworthiness, industriousness, and dedication in a wife, which contribute to her husband's well-being and success.

Communication and Partnership

Effective communication and partnership are vital components of a healthy marriage. 1 Peter 3:1-2 advises, "Wives, in the same way, submit yourselves to your husbands so that, even if they refuse to believe the word, they will be won over without words by the behavior of their wives when they see your pure and reverent demeanor." This suggests that a wife's conduct and communication can have a profound impact on her husband, even in spiritual matters.

Prayer and Spiritual Growth

Pleasing one's husband also involves mutual spiritual growth and prayer. 1 Corinthians 7:4-5 highlights the mutual authority and responsibility within marriage: "The wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband. Likewise, the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife. Do not deprive one another, except by mutual consent and for a time, so you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again, so that Satan will not tempt you through your lack of self-control." This passage emphasizes the importance of spiritual unity and the role of prayer in strengthening the marital bond.

In summary, pleasing one's husband according to biblical principles involves a combination of respect, love, communication, and spiritual partnership. By adhering to these teachings, a wife can contribute to a fulfilling and God-honoring marriage.
Topical Bible Verses
1 Corinthians 7:34
There is difference also between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried woman cares for the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit: but she that is married cares for the things of the world, how she may please her husband.
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Concerning the Plea of "Pleasing the Husband. "
... Chapter IV."Concerning the Plea of "Pleasing the Husband.". ... and (one which is) common
to all, (I would say,) "You are bound to please your husbands only ...
/.../tertullian/on the apparel of women/chapter iv concerning the plea of.htm

Epistle xxix. To Bertha, Queen of the Angli .
... reign happily here with our glorious son your husband, and after ... would both kindle
the heart of your Glory with ... an eternal reward for work well-pleasing to Him ...
/.../the epistles of saint gregory the great/epistle xxix to bertha queen.htm

Christ the Believer's Husband
... Peter) obeyed Abraham, calling him Lord." An evident proof how pleasing it is in
the sight of God, for ... See to it that you reverence and respect your husband. ...
/.../selected sermons of george whitefield/christ the believers husband.htm

On Pleasing all Men
... avoided, by all that are desirous of pleasing their neighbour ... as feet to the lame,
a husband to the ... to those who are immediate objects of your compassion, but ...
/.../wesley/sermons on several occasions/sermon 100 on pleasing all.htm

How to Work the Work of God
... your friend, in your wife, in your husband, in your guide? ... The heart of her husband
doth safely ... they lack that which makes them acceptable, well-pleasing to Him ...
/.../maclaren/expositions of holy scripture i/how to work the work.htm

The Apostle Has Made Known to us Certain Three Unions...
... body, or flesh, to be so subject to the husband as the ... brethren, by the mercy of
God, that ye present your bodies a sacrifice, living, holy, pleasing to God ...
//christianbookshelf.org/augustine/on continence/section 23 the apostle has.htm

Letter to a Young Widow.
... is nevertheless perishable; but the bodies of those who have been well pleasing
to God ... For tell me if any one had promised to make your husband king of all the ...
/.../christianbookshelf.org/chrysostom/on the priesthood/letter to a young widow.htm

Treatise ii. On the Dress of virgins.
... themselves concerning the solace of their husbands with the desire of pleasing them,
and ... You have no fear of child-bearing; nor is your husband lord over you ...
/.../cyprian/the treatises of cyprian/treatise ii on the dress.htm

Women as Well as Men, Slaves as Well as Freemen, Candidates for ...
... For the husband is head of the wife, as also Christ is the head of the Church ... Children,
obey your parents in all things; for this is well pleasing to the ...
/.../clement/the stromata or miscellanies/chapter viii women as well as.htm

V. ...
... she knows her condition, that her state is pleasing to God ... together of the grace
of life, that your prayers be ... For this reason is the husband to respect his wife ...
/.../the epistles of st peter and st jude preached and explained/chapter iii v .htm

Resources
How can I stop being a people-pleaser? | GotQuestions.org

Why would the aroma of a sacrifice be important to God? | GotQuestions.org

How can I please God? | GotQuestions.org

Pleasing: Dictionary and Thesaurus | Clyx.com

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