Wives and Husbands 1Wives, in the same way, submit yourselves to your husbands, so that even if they refuse to believe the word, they will be won over without words by the behavior of their wives 2when they see your pure and reverent demeanor. 3Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as braided hair or gold jewelry or fine clothes, 4but from the inner disposition of your heart, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is precious in God’s sight. 5For this is how the holy women of the past adorned themselves. They put their hope in God and were submissive to their husbands, 6just as Sarah obeyed Abraham and called him lord. And you are her children if you do what is right and refuse to give way to fear. 7Husbands, in the same way, treat your wives with consideration as a delicate vessel, and with honor as fellow heirs of the gracious gift of life, so that your prayers will not be hindered. Turning from Evil 8Finally, all of you, be like-minded and sympathetic, love as brothers, be tenderhearted and humble. 9Do not repay evil with evil or insult with insult, but with blessing, because to this you were called so that you may inherit a blessing. 10For, “Whoever would love life and see good days must keep his tongue from evil and his lips from deceitful speech. 11He must turn from evil and do good; he must seek peace and pursue it. 12For the eyes of the Lord are on the righteous, and His ears are inclined to their prayer. But the face of the Lord is against those who do evil.”a 13Who can harm you if you are zealous for what is good? Suffering for Righteousness 14But even if you should suffer for what is right, you are blessed. “Do not fear what they fear; do not be shaken.”b 15But in your hearts sanctify Christ as Lord.c Always be prepared to give a defense to everyone who asks you the reason for the hope that is in you. But respond with gentleness and respect, 16keeping a clear conscience, so that those who slander you may be put to shame by your good behavior in Christ. 17For it is better, if it is God’s will, to suffer for doing good than for doing evil. 18For Christ also sufferedd for sins once for all, the righteous for the unrighteous, to bring you to God. He was put to death in the body but made alive in the Spirit, 19in whome He also went and preached to the spirits in prison 20who disobeyed long ago when God waited patiently in the days of Noah while the ark was being built. In the ark a few people, only eight souls, were saved through water. 21And this water symbolizes the baptism that now saves you also—not the removal of dirt from the body, but the pledge off a clear conscience toward God—through the resurrection of Jesus Christ, 22who has gone into heaven and is at the right hand of God, with angels, authorities, and powers subject to Him. Footnotes: 12 a Psalm 34:12–16 (see also LXX) 14 b Or “Do not fear their threats; do not be shaken.” Isaiah 8:12 15 c BYZ and TR But sanctify the Lord God in your hearts. This sentence may also be included with the quotation from the previous verse; see Isaiah 8:13. 18 d NE and WH died 19 e Or in the spirit, 19in which 21 f Or appeal for Berean Standard Bible (BSB) printed 2016, 2020, 2022, 2025 by Bible Hub and Berean.Bible. Produced in cooperation with Bible Hub, Discovery Bible, unfoldingWord, Bible Aquifer, OpenBible.com, and the Berean Bible Translation Committee. This text of God's Word has been dedicated to the public domain. Free downloads and unlimited usage available. See also the Berean Literal Bible and Berean Interlinear Bible. Bible Hub 1 Peter 3 Summary Suffering for RighteousnessVerses 1–6 – Respectful Wives Verse 7 – Considerate Husbands Verses 8–12 – Harmony in the Body Verses 13–17 – Suffering for Doing Good Verses 18–22 – Christ’s Victory Proclaimed 1 Peter 3 is a part of Peter's first epistle written to the Christian diaspora in Asia Minor. The chapter encourages Christians to live harmoniously, emphasizing the importance of conduct within relationships, particularly in marriage. It discusses the righteous response to suffering, the power of Christ's sacrifice, and the symbolic representation of baptism. Audience and Setting The letter is addressed to scattered believers in Pontus, Galatia, Cappadocia, Asia, and Bithynia—Roman provinces in today’s Turkey. They faced social pressure and episodes of state hostility in the early 60s AD. Peter, writing from “Babylon” (widely taken as Rome), offers guidance on conduct that displays the gospel to a skeptical world. Household Conduct in the Roman World Roman law granted husbands broad power. When a wife adopted a new faith, conflict often followed. Peter’s counsel does not erase Christian liberty but shows how respectful behavior can soften resistance. His words echo similar teaching in Ephesians 5:22–24 and Colossians 3:18–19. By highlighting Sarah’s reverent obedience (Genesis 18:12), he sets an Old Testament precedent. Inner Beauty over Outward Adornment “Your beauty should not come from outward adornment—such as braided hair or gold jewelry or fine clothes” (3:3). Ancient writers like Plutarch note elaborate hairstyles worn by upper-class Roman women. Peter contrasts that culture with “the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is precious in God’s sight” (3:4). Proverbs 31:30 makes the same point: “Charm is deceitful and beauty is fleeting, but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised.” Shared Heirs of Grace By calling wives “fellow heirs of the grace of life,” Peter elevates them above the era’s norms. Galatians 3:28 likewise states, “there is no male or female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus.” The phrase “so that your prayers will not be hindered” warns husbands that spiritual authority cannot be exercised harshly. Psalm 34 and the Pursuit of Peace Verses 10–12 quote Psalm 34:12–16 almost word-for-word. David wrote that psalm while fleeing Saul, a time of unjust suffering. Peter sees the same pattern: watch your speech, turn from evil, do good, seek peace, and trust that “the eyes of the Lord are on the righteous.” Fearless Witness “Do not fear their intimidation” echoes Isaiah 8:12–13, where the prophet is urged to fear God rather than human threats. Jesus applied Isaiah’s words as well (Matthew 10:28). A “defense” (3:15) of hope does not require a courtroom; it can be any everyday conversation conducted “with gentleness and respect.” Christ’s Suffering Once for All Verse 18 condenses the gospel: substitution (the righteous for the unrighteous), finality (“once for sins”), purpose (“to bring you to God”), death and resurrection. Hebrews 9:28 states the same: “Christ was sacrificed once to take away the sins of many.” Spirits in Prison and the Days of Noah Peter links Christ’s resurrection victory to a proclamation “to the spirits in prison, who disobeyed long ago when God waited patiently in the days of Noah” (3:19–20). Genesis 6:1–4 describes rebellious beings; 2 Peter 2:4 and Jude 6 say such angels are kept in gloomy chains. The preaching is not a second chance but a declaration of defeat (Colossians 2:15). Noah, the Flood, and the Symbol of Baptism “Eight souls were saved through water” (3:20). Water judged the old world yet buoyed the ark, prefiguring how baptism identifies believers with Christ’s death and resurrection. Romans 6:3–4 explains that those baptized “into Christ Jesus were baptized into His death… so we too may walk in newness of life.” Early Christian Baptismal Practice Excavations at first-century homes in places like Dura-Europos reveal large baptismal basins. Artwork in Roman catacombs shows Noah in the ark alongside baptism scenes, illustrating the connection the early church drew between the two events. Archaeological Echoes Jewelry pieces from Pompeii display the intricate goldwork common among wealthy Roman women—visual confirmation of the adornment Peter mentions. Inscriptions found at catacombs often refer to baptismal identity, such as “Marcus, born again in water and spirit, rests in peace,” underscoring the chapter’s emphasis on a clean conscience before God. Practical Lessons for Today • Marriage: Respect and honor are mutual; neither submission nor leadership justifies domination. • Speech: Silence can preach louder than words when paired with pure conduct. • Suffering: Opposition for righteous living is a blessing, not a defeat. • Hope: A ready answer flows from daily reverence for Christ, not from argumentative skill. • Victory: Every power opposed to God already knows its defeat because the risen Christ sits “at the right hand of God” (3:22), and His people share in that triumph. Connections to Additional Scriptures Ephesians 5:22-33Explores the roles of husbands and wives, emphasizing love and respect. Matthew 5:44 Jesus teaches to love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you. Romans 12:17-21 Encourages believers to overcome evil with good. Philippians 2:5-8 Highlights Christ’s humility and obedience, even to death on a cross. Teaching Points Submission and Respect in MarriageWives, in the same way, submit yourselves to your husbands... (1 Peter 3:1). This calls for a respectful and supportive relationship, reflecting Christ's love. Husbands are instructed to treat your wives with consideration as a delicate vessel (1 Peter 3:7), emphasizing honor and understanding. Inner Beauty and Conduct The focus is on the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is precious in God’s sight (1 Peter 3:4). True beauty is found in character and godliness. Responding to Evil with Good Do not repay evil with evil or insult with insult, but with blessing (1 Peter 3:9). Christians are called to respond to hostility with kindness and blessing. Suffering for Righteousness But even if you should suffer for what is right, you are blessed (1 Peter 3:14). Suffering for doing good is commendable and aligns us with Christ's own suffering. The Example of Christ Christ suffered for sins once for all, the righteous for the unrighteous, to bring you to God (1 Peter 3:18). His sacrifice is the ultimate example of righteous suffering. Practical Applications Cultivate Inner BeautyFocus on developing a gentle and quiet spirit through prayer and meditation on God’s Word. Strengthen Marital Relationships Practice mutual respect and understanding in marriage, seeking to honor God in your relationship. Respond with Grace When faced with hostility or insult, choose to respond with kindness and seek to bless others. Embrace Suffering for Good View suffering for righteousness as a blessing and an opportunity to grow closer to Christ. Follow Christ’s Example In times of trial, remember Christ’s sacrifice and strive to emulate His love and patience. People 1. WivesIn 1 Peter 3:1-6, wives are addressed with instructions to submit to their husbands. The passage emphasizes the importance of inner beauty and a gentle and quiet spirit, which is considered precious in God's sight. The Greek word for "submit" (ὑποτάσσω, hypotassō) implies a voluntary yielding in love. 2. Husbands In 1 Peter 3:7, husbands are instructed to live with their wives in an understanding way, showing honor to them as the weaker vessel. The term "understanding" (γνῶσις, gnōsis) suggests a deep, considerate knowledge of their wives' needs and feelings. 3. Sarah Sarah is mentioned in 1 Peter 3:6 as an example for wives. She is noted for her obedience to Abraham, calling him "lord." This reference highlights her respect and submission, which is commended in the context of the passage. 4. Abraham Although not directly addressed, Abraham is referenced in 1 Peter 3:6 in relation to Sarah's obedience. His role as Sarah's husband and the patriarch of faith is implicit in the context. 5. The Lord The Lord is referenced throughout the chapter as the ultimate authority and the one who values a gentle and quiet spirit (1 Peter 3:4). The Greek word for "Lord" (Κύριος, Kyrios) signifies authority and divinity. 6. Noah Noah is mentioned in 1 Peter 3:20 as a preacher of righteousness during the time of the flood. His account is used to illustrate God's patience and the salvation that comes through water, prefiguring baptism. 7. Jesus Christ Jesus Christ is central in 1 Peter 3:18-22, where His suffering, death, and resurrection are discussed. He is described as having been put to death in the flesh but made alive in the spirit, proclaiming victory over spirits in prison. The Greek term for "Christ" (Χριστός, Christos) means "Anointed One." 8. Spirits in Prison These are mentioned in 1 Peter 3:19 as the spirits to whom Christ proclaimed His victory. The passage is often interpreted as referring to fallen angels or the disobedient during Noah's time. 9. Angels, Authorities, and Powers In 1 Peter 3:22, these beings are mentioned as being subject to Christ following His ascension into heaven. The Greek terms (ἄγγελοι, angeloi; ἐξουσίαι, exousiai; δυνάμεις, dynameis) denote various ranks of spiritual beings. Places 1. Home (Household Context)The chapter begins with instructions for wives and husbands, emphasizing the household as a place of mutual respect and understanding. The Greek term "οἶκος" (oikos) refers to a house or household, highlighting the importance of the family unit in Christian life. 2. Heart (Inner Being) In verse 4, the "hidden person of the heart" is mentioned, referring to the inner spiritual life. The Greek word "καρδία" (kardia) is used for heart, symbolizing the core of one's being and spiritual condition. 3. Church (Community of Believers) While not explicitly named, the context of the chapter implies the church as a place where believers gather and support one another, especially in verses 8-12, which call for unity and compassion among Christians. 4. World (Broader Society) The chapter addresses how Christians should conduct themselves in the world, particularly in verses 13-17, which discuss suffering for doing good. The Greek term "κόσμος" (kosmos) often refers to the world or society at large, where believers are called to be witnesses. 5. Prison (Spiritual Imprisonment) In verse 19, there is a reference to Christ preaching to the "spirits in prison." This is a complex theological concept, often interpreted as Christ's proclamation of victory over sin and death. The Greek word "φυλακή" (phylake) means prison or guard, indicating a place of confinement. Events 1. Instructions to WivesPeter begins by instructing wives to submit to their husbands, emphasizing the importance of a gentle and quiet spirit. This submission is described as a way to win over husbands who do not believe the word, through their wives' conduct. ^"Wives, in the same way, submit yourselves to your husbands so that, even if they refuse to believe the word, they will be won over without words by the behavior of their wives"^ (1 Peter 3:1). The Greek word for "submit" is "ὑποτάσσω" (hypotassō), which implies a voluntary yielding. 2. Adorning with Inner Beauty Peter advises women to focus on inner beauty rather than outward adornment. He highlights the value of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is precious in God's sight. ^"Your beauty should not come from outward adornment such as braided hair or gold jewelry or fine clothes, but from the inner disposition of your heart, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is precious in God’s sight"^ (1 Peter 3:3-4). 3. Example of Sarah The apostle cites Sarah, who obeyed Abraham and called him lord, as an example for Christian wives to follow. ^"For this is how the holy women of the past adorned themselves. They put their hope in God and were submissive to their husbands, just as Sarah obeyed Abraham and called him lord"^ (1 Peter 3:5-6). 4. Instructions to Husbands Husbands are instructed to live considerately with their wives and to treat them with respect as co-heirs of the grace of life. ^"Husbands, in the same way, treat your wives with consideration as a delicate vessel, and with honor as fellow heirs of the gracious gift of life, so that your prayers will not be hindered"^ (1 Peter 3:7). The Greek word "συνοικέω" (synoikeō) for "live" implies dwelling together with understanding. 5. Call to Unity and Compassion Peter calls all believers to be like-minded, sympathetic, loving, compassionate, and humble. ^"Finally, all of you, be like-minded and sympathetic, love as brothers, be tenderhearted and humble"^ (1 Peter 3:8). 6. Blessing Instead of Retaliation Believers are encouraged not to repay evil with evil or insult with insult, but to bless others, as they were called to inherit a blessing. ^"Do not repay evil with evil or insult with insult, but with blessing, because to this you were called so that you may inherit a blessing"^ (1 Peter 3:9). 7. The Righteous Suffering for Doing Good Peter reassures believers that suffering for doing good is commendable before God. ^"But even if you should suffer for what is right, you are blessed. 'Do not fear their threats; do not be frightened'"^ (1 Peter 3:14). 8. Sanctifying Christ as Lord Believers are urged to sanctify Christ as Lord in their hearts and to always be prepared to give an answer for their hope, with gentleness and respect. ^"But in your hearts sanctify Christ as Lord. Always be prepared to give a defense to everyone who asks you the reason for the hope that is in you, but respond with gentleness and respect"^ (1 Peter 3:15). 9. Christ's Suffering and Victory Peter concludes by highlighting Christ's suffering for sins, His victory over death, and His proclamation to the spirits in prison. ^"For Christ also suffered for sins once for all, the righteous for the unrighteous, to bring you to God. He was put to death in the body but made alive in the spirit"^ (1 Peter 3:18). Topics 1. Wives and Husbands (1 Peter 3:1-7)This section addresses the conduct of wives and husbands. Wives are encouraged to be submissive to their husbands, even if they do not believe, so that they may be won over by their behavior (1 Peter 3:1). The Greek word for "submissive" is "ὑποτάσσω" (hypotassō), which implies a voluntary yielding. Husbands are instructed to honor their wives and treat them with understanding, recognizing them as co-heirs of the grace of life (1 Peter 3:7). 2. Called to Blessing (1 Peter 3:8-12) Believers are called to live harmoniously, with sympathy, love, compassion, and humility (1 Peter 3:8). They are urged not to repay evil with evil or insult with insult, but with blessing, as they were called to inherit a blessing (1 Peter 3:9). The passage quotes Psalm 34:12-16, emphasizing the importance of righteous living and seeking peace. 3. Suffering for Righteousness (1 Peter 3:13-17) This section encourages believers not to fear suffering for doing good, as it is better to suffer for righteousness than for doing evil (1 Peter 3:14, 17). The Greek word "πάσχω" (paschō) for "suffer" is used, highlighting the endurance of hardship for the sake of righteousness. Believers are to sanctify Christ as Lord in their hearts and be ready to give a defense for their hope (1 Peter 3:15). 4. Christ’s Suffering and Exaltation (1 Peter 3:18-22) Peter explains that Christ suffered once for sins, the righteous for the unrighteous, to bring believers to God (1 Peter 3:18). The Greek term "δικαιος" (dikaios) for "righteous" underscores Christ's sinlessness. The passage also discusses Christ's proclamation to the spirits in prison and His resurrection and exaltation at the right hand of God, with angels, authorities, and powers subjected to Him (1 Peter 3:19-22). Themes 1. Submission and Respect in Marriage1 Peter 3:1-7 discusses the theme of submission and respect within the marriage relationship. Wives are encouraged to be submissive to their husbands, "so that even if they refuse to believe the word, they will be won over without words by the behavior of their wives" (1 Peter 3:1). The Greek word for submission, "ὑποτάσσω" (hypotassō), implies a voluntary and respectful yielding. Husbands are instructed to honor their wives, recognizing them as co-heirs of the grace of life. 2. Inner Beauty and Godly Conduct Verses 3-4 emphasize the importance of inner beauty over outward adornment. The passage encourages women to focus on "the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is precious in God’s sight" (1 Peter 3:4). The Greek term "πραΰς" (praus) for gentle suggests a meekness that is strength under control, valued by God. 3. Unity and Compassion Among Believers In 1 Peter 3:8, believers are called to live in harmony, being sympathetic, loving, compassionate, and humble. The Greek word "ὁμόφρων" (homophron) for unity indicates being of one mind, highlighting the importance of community and mutual support within the church. 4. Responding to Evil with Blessing Verses 9-12 instruct believers not to repay evil with evil or insult with insult, but with blessing. "For to this you were called, so that you may inherit a blessing" (1 Peter 3:9). The Greek word "εὐλογέω" (eulogeō) for blessing suggests speaking well of others, even in the face of wrongdoing, reflecting Christ-like behavior. 5. Suffering for Righteousness' Sake 1 Peter 3:13-17 addresses the theme of suffering for doing good. Believers are encouraged not to fear threats but to "sanctify Christ as Lord in your hearts" (1 Peter 3:15). The Greek "ἁγιάζω" (hagiazō) for sanctify means to set apart, indicating a deep reverence and commitment to Christ even amidst persecution. 6. Christ’s Example in Suffering Verses 18-22 highlight Christ's suffering as the righteous for the unrighteous, to bring believers to God. This theme underscores the redemptive purpose of Christ's suffering and His victory over sin and death. The Greek "πάσχω" (paschō) for suffering emphasizes the physical and spiritual endurance Christ exhibited, serving as a model for believers. Answering Tough Questions 1. In 1 Peter 3:1, how can modern readers reconcile the command for wives to submit to husbands with contemporary views on gender equality? Bible Study Discussion Questions 1. How can the advice given to wives in 1 Peter 3:1-2 be applicable in today's society? 2. In what ways can husbands apply the instructions given in verse 7 in their marital relationships today? 3. How does Peter's call for unity and blessing in verses 8-12 speak to the current state of the world? What steps can you personally take to heed this call? 4. What does it mean to 'turn from evil and do good; seek peace and pursue it' in our present-day context? 5. How can Christians practically sanctify Christ as Lord in their hearts, as suggested in verse 15? 6. Reflect on a situation where you had to suffer for doing what was right. How does 1 Peter 3:14-17 speak into that experience? 7. How can we effectively 'give a defense to everyone who asks for a reason for our hope' in a world of diverse beliefs and perspectives? 8. How does the passage about Christ's suffering (verses 18-22) inspire you in your personal life? 9. How can the analogy of baptism in verse 21 be connected to the process of spiritual transformation? 10. In verse 22, it is mentioned that Christ is at the right hand of God, with angels, authorities, and powers subject to Him. How does this image impact your understanding of Christ's authority and power? 11. How does the teaching of 1 Peter 3 influence your understanding of Christian behavior in relationships? 12. How does the theme of Christian suffering resonate with your own experiences? 13. In what ways can you apply the lessons from 1 Peter 3 to your everyday life? 14. How does the example of Christ's sacrifice impact your perspective on sacrifice in your own life? 15. How can the lessons on Christian conduct in 1 Peter 3 be utilized to address conflicts in your community? 16. How does the theme of unity in this chapter speak to your role in your community and the wider society? 17. How does this chapter change or enhance your understanding of Christian hope? 18. How does the guidance in 1 Peter 3 shape your understanding and practice of humility and respect? 19. Reflect on the societal challenges that may make it difficult for you to 'turn from evil and do good' as urged in verse 11. How can you overcome these challenges? 20. Given the teachings in this chapter, how can the church better serve its community and exemplify Christ's love? Bible Hub Chapter Summaries and Bible Study Questions |




