Step Parents
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Definition and Context:
Step parents are individuals who marry someone with children from a previous relationship, thereby assuming a parental role for those children. The concept of step parenting, while not explicitly detailed in the Bible, can be inferred through various familial structures and relationships depicted in the Scriptures.

Biblical Examples and Principles:
The Bible provides several examples of blended families and complex family dynamics, which can offer insights into the role of step parents. Although the term "step parent" is not used, the principles of love, care, and responsibility are evident.

1. Joseph and Jesus:
Joseph, the husband of Mary, is a prominent example of a step parent-like figure. Though not the biological father of Jesus, Joseph took on the responsibility of raising Him. Matthew 1:24-25 states, "When Joseph woke up, he did as the angel of the Lord had commanded him, and took Mary as his wife. But he had no union with her until she gave birth to a Son. And he gave Him the name Jesus." Joseph's obedience and care for Jesus demonstrate the commitment expected of a step parent.

2. Moses and Jethro:
While not a direct example of step parenting, the relationship between Moses and his father-in-law Jethro provides insights into familial support and guidance. Jethro offered Moses wise counsel and support, as seen in Exodus 18:17-24 , where Jethro advises Moses on leadership and delegation. This relationship highlights the importance of wisdom and guidance in family dynamics.

3. Ruth and Naomi:
The account of Ruth and Naomi illustrates the bond that can form between non-biological family members. Ruth's loyalty to her mother-in-law Naomi, as expressed in Ruth 1:16 , "But Ruth replied: 'Do not urge me to leave you or to turn from following you. For wherever you go, I will go, and wherever you live, I will live; your people will be my people, and your God will be my God,'" exemplifies the deep commitment and love that can exist in blended families.

Biblical Principles for Step Parents:
The Bible emphasizes several principles that are applicable to step parents:

· Love and Compassion:
Step parents are called to love their stepchildren as their own, reflecting the love of Christ. Ephesians 5:1-2 encourages believers to "be imitators of God as beloved children, and walk in love, just as Christ loved us and gave Himself up for us as a fragrant sacrificial offering to God."

· Patience and Understanding:
Blended families may face unique challenges, requiring patience and understanding. James 1:19 advises, "My beloved brothers, understand this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to anger."

· Guidance and Instruction:
Step parents are tasked with guiding and instructing their stepchildren in the ways of the Lord. Proverbs 22:6 states, "Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it."

· Unity and Peace:
Maintaining unity and peace within the family is crucial. Romans 12:18 encourages, "If it is possible on your part, live at peace with everyone."

Conclusion:
While the Bible does not specifically address step parents, the principles of love, responsibility, and godly guidance are applicable to all parental roles, including those of step parents. Through biblical examples and teachings, step parents are encouraged to embrace their role with love, patience, and a commitment to raising their stepchildren in the knowledge and love of God.
Topical Bible Verses
Philippians 2:4
Look not every man on his own things, but every man also on the things of others.
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Philippians 4:8
Finally, brothers, whatever things are true, whatever things are honest, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things.
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A Downward Step.
... Thus the evil habit of taking what doesn't belong to us becomes a part of our nature,
and step by step we fall into greater sin. ... Parents, beware. ...
/.../byrum/the value of a praying mother/chapter vii a downward step.htm

Whether the Sin of Our First Parents was More Grievous than Other ...
... on the highest step of perfection cannot fail or fall suddenly: this can happen
only by degrees and little by little." Now our first parents were established ...
//christianbookshelf.org/aquinas/summa theologica/whether the sin of our.htm

Here Gregory Interweaves the Narrative of his Former Life. His ...
... It seemed good to the only one of my parents who survived to care for me ... curator,
ever so watchful, when my friends were not thinking of such a step, and when I ...
/.../argument v here gregory interweaves the.htm

Prov. 22:06 the Duties of Parents
... Parents, if you love your children, do all that lies in your power to train them
up ... This, remember, is the first step in religion which a child is able to take ...
/.../the upper room being a few truths for the times/chapter xvi prov 22 6 the.htm

The Life of Mary is Set Before virgins as an Example...
... unaccustomed to go from home, except for divine service, and this with parents or
kinsfolk ... progressed not so much by the motion of her feet as by step upon step ...
/.../ambrose/works and letters of st ambrose/chapter ii the life of.htm

Home-Example.
... question, "Thou that teachest another, teachest thou not thyself?" Hence parents
should say to ... should thus go in and out before them, leading them step by step ...
//christianbookshelf.org/philips/the christian home/chapter xx home-example.htm

Still Continues the Praise of "Wisdom. ...
... Thus, step by step, human wisdom treads on, and, as here, in her most worthy
representative, "the king ... But, then, is it on account of his parents' sinning? ...
/.../jennings/old groans and new songs/chapter viii still continues the.htm

Naaman Cured.
... None of us see much further into the ways of Providence than those parents saw ... And
it is the Church's shame if she cannot step forward and confidently say, You ...
//christianbookshelf.org/dods/how to become like christ/naaman cured.htm

Miscellaneous.
... towards heaven, have ceased; hungerings and thirstings after salvation, another
step towards the ... Though thy parents be never so low, and thou thyself never so ...
//christianbookshelf.org/bunyan/the riches of bunyan/xxix miscellaneous.htm

Responsibilities of the Christian Home.
... with their parents, neglect their souls and kneel at the altars of Mammon rather
than bow in prayer before God. And thus they go on from one step in departure ...
/.../philips/the christian home/chapter vii responsibilities of the.htm

Resources
In what ways should Christians be prepared to step outside their comfort zone? | GotQuestions.org

I am a new Christian. What is the next step? | GotQuestions.org

What does the Bible say about stepparenting / step-parenting? | GotQuestions.org

Step: Dictionary and Thesaurus | Clyx.com

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