Families: should Live in Unity
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The concept of family unity is deeply rooted in the biblical narrative, emphasizing the importance of harmony, love, and mutual support within the family unit. The Bible presents the family as a foundational institution established by God, intended to reflect His love and order.

Biblical Foundation

The Bible begins with the creation of the family in Genesis. God created man and woman, instituting marriage as the first human relationship. Genesis 2:24 states, "For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh." This verse underscores the unity and oneness intended for the marital relationship, which serves as the cornerstone of the family.

Unity in the Old Testament

Throughout the Old Testament, the family is portrayed as a unit that should live in harmony and obedience to God's commandments. The Shema, found in Deuteronomy 6:4-9, instructs families to love the Lord with all their heart and to teach His commandments diligently to their children. This passage highlights the role of the family in spiritual education and unity in faith.

Psalm 133:1 further emphasizes the beauty of unity: "Behold, how good and how pleasant it is when brothers live together in harmony!" This verse celebrates the joy and peace that come from familial unity, reflecting God's desire for His people to live in concord.

New Testament Teachings

The New Testament continues to stress the importance of family unity. Jesus Himself affirmed the sanctity of marriage and family, teaching about the indissoluble bond between husband and wife (Matthew 19:4-6). The Apostle Paul, in his letters, provides practical guidance for maintaining unity within the family.

Ephesians 4:2-3 encourages believers to "walk with all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love, and with diligence to preserve the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace." While this passage addresses the broader Christian community, its principles are directly applicable to family life, urging members to cultivate virtues that foster unity.

In Ephesians 5:22-33 and 6:1-4, Paul outlines the roles and responsibilities of family members, emphasizing mutual submission, love, and respect. Husbands are called to love their wives as Christ loved the church, and wives are encouraged to respect their husbands. Children are instructed to obey their parents, and fathers are advised not to provoke their children but to bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.

Challenges to Unity

Despite the biblical ideal, families often face challenges to unity, such as conflict, misunderstanding, and external pressures. The Bible acknowledges these difficulties and provides guidance for resolution. Matthew 18:15-17 offers a process for addressing grievances, emphasizing reconciliation and forgiveness.

Colossians 3:13-14 advises, "Bear with one another and forgive any complaint you may have against someone else. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. And over all these virtues put on love, which is the bond of perfect unity." This passage highlights forgiveness and love as essential components for maintaining family unity.

Conclusion

The biblical call for families to live in unity is clear and compelling. Through love, mutual respect, and adherence to God's commandments, families can reflect the divine harmony intended by their Creator.
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Genesis 45:24
So he sent his brothers away, and they departed: and he said to them, See that you fall not out by the way.
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Psalm 133:1
Behold, how good and how pleasant it is for brothers to dwell together in unity!
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An Exhortation to Peace and Unity
... In like manner, the divisions of families are a dishonour ... will temper our spirits,
and make us live in peace ... are more darkly laid down, we should consider that ...
/.../bunyan/the works of john bunyan volumes 1-3/an exhortation to peace and.htm

Concerning Peaceableness
... i) An Oeconomical peace, peace in families. ... be possible, as much as lieth in you,
live peaceably with ... be looped together (Exodus 26:3, 4). So should the hearts ...
/.../the beatitudes an exposition of matthew 51-12/18 concerning peaceableness.htm

The Duty of the People of God to Excite Others to Seek this Rest.
... See whether they worship God in their families, and teach ... rather than the Gospel
and men's souls should suffer ... not the ministry only for a trade to live by; but ...
/.../baxter/the saints everlasting rest/chapter ix the duty of.htm

Our Lord's Prayer for his People's Sanctification
... If your families are not graciously ordered; if your business is ... quit our professions
if we do not live up to ... us, that by our godly lives we should show forth ...
/.../spurgeon/spurgeons sermons volume 32 1886/our lords prayer for his.htm

On Matrimony
... Many young men live to be sorry for wasting ... Again, the persons should be nearly equals
in education ... helps greatly to secure harmony between families and unity ...
/.../kinkead/baltimore catechism no 4/lesson 26 on matrimony.htm

From his Entrance on the Ministry in 1815, to his Commission to ...
... of a minute expressing their full unity and approbation ... the 18th, after visiting
all the families, he attended ... inward spirit of prayer; we should live in nearer ...
/.../chapter ii from his entrance.htm

John Wycliffe.
... In many cases, several families united to purchase a copy. ... I should live and be silent ...
the system of truth which he presented there was a unity and completeness ...
/.../white/the great controversy between christ and satan /5 john wycliffe.htm

John Wycliffe
... In many cases, several families united to purchase a copy. ... I should live and be silent ...
the system of truth which he presented there was a unity and completeness ...
/...//christianbookshelf.org/white/the great controversy/chapter 5 john wycliffe.htm

Moravians, or United Brethren.
... proselytes of two or three Moravian families, and, having ... They believe that, to live
agreeably to the gospel ... their social agreement that none should take place ...
/.../hayward/the book of religions/moravians or united brethren.htm

To the Anziani and Consuls and Gonfalonieri of Bologna
... So you see that this charity should be and is ... so much to their own affairs and live
so luxuriously ... know how to rule themselves or their families"unjust and ...
/.../benincasa/letters of catherine benincasa/to the anziani and consuls.htm

Resources
What are the Quiverfull and Patriarchy movements? | GotQuestions.org

Is it wrong for a Christian family to put a loved one into a nursing home? | GotQuestions.org

What does the Bible say about family? | GotQuestions.org

Families: Dictionary and Thesaurus | Clyx.com

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