Wedding Vows
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Definition and Origin
Wedding vows are solemn promises made by a bride and groom to each other during a marriage ceremony. These vows are a central component of Christian marriage, reflecting the covenantal nature of the union. The concept of marriage as a covenant is deeply rooted in biblical teachings, where marriage is seen as a sacred bond instituted by God.

Biblical Foundations
The Bible does not provide a specific script for wedding vows, but it offers foundational principles for marriage. In Genesis 2:24 , it is written, "For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh." This verse underscores the unity and commitment inherent in marriage.

The New Testament further elaborates on the nature of marital relationships. Ephesians 5:31-33 echoes the Genesis passage, stating, "For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh. This mystery is profound, but I am speaking about Christ and the church. Nevertheless, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband." This passage highlights the mutual love and respect that should characterize the marriage relationship, drawing a parallel between the marital union and the relationship between Christ and the Church.

Traditional Christian Vows
Traditional Christian wedding vows often reflect the biblical principles of love, fidelity, and lifelong commitment. A common form of vows includes promises to love, honor, cherish, and remain faithful "for better or worse, for richer or poorer, in sickness and in health, until death do us part." These vows emphasize the enduring nature of the marriage covenant, mirroring the steadfast love of God.

Theological Significance
In Christian theology, marriage is more than a legal contract; it is a divine covenant. This covenantal view is supported by Malachi 2:14 , which states, "Yet you ask, 'For what reason?' Because the LORD has been a witness between you and the wife of your youth. You have broken faith with her, though she is your partner, the wife of your marriage covenant." Here, marriage is described as a covenant witnessed by God, underscoring its sacred and binding nature.

Role in the Marriage Ceremony
During the marriage ceremony, the exchange of vows is a pivotal moment where the couple publicly declares their commitment to each other before God and witnesses. This act is not only a personal promise but also a public declaration of the couple's intention to live out their marriage according to biblical principles.

Cultural and Denominational Variations
While the essence of wedding vows remains consistent across Christian denominations, there can be variations in wording and emphasis. Some denominations may incorporate additional elements, such as the inclusion of specific scripture readings or blessings. Despite these variations, the core commitment to love, fidelity, and lifelong partnership remains central.

Conclusion
Wedding vows in the Christian tradition are a profound expression of the covenantal nature of marriage. Rooted in biblical teachings, they serve as a reminder of the sacred and enduring commitment that marriage entails. Through these vows, couples pledge to uphold the principles of love, respect, and unity as they embark on their shared life journey.
Topical Bible Verses
Romans 7:2-3
For the woman which has an husband is bound by the law to her husband so long as he lives; but if the husband be dead, she is loosed from the law of her husband.
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Ephesians 5:33
Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband.
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Genesis 2:24
Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall join to his wife: and they shall be one flesh.
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Matthew 19:6
Why they are no more two, but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let not man put asunder.
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The Glory of the virgins and Religious.
... When they came to the wedding, they stood at the door, and said, "Lord, Lord ... and
women who, while on earth, consecrated themselves to God by the vows of poverty ...
/.../boudreaux/the happiness of heaven/chapter xix the glory of.htm

The Difference of Some Customs of the Galileans from those of ...
... And in the same text is added, "If any vows generally by curses, he is ... made inquiry
concerning the bridegroom and bride three days before the wedding: but in ...
/.../lightfoot/from the talmud and hebraica/chapter 86 the difference of.htm

Marriage of the Blessed virgin to Joseph
... This festival seemed to be a continuation of the wedding festival ... Among the countless
forms of vows, which according to the Mishnah were usual amongst the Jews ...
/.../emmerich/the life of the blessed virgin mary/vii marriage of the blessed.htm

With the Entry of Angela's Great Picture "The Coming of Christ" ...
... vows before thousands whom her husband had helped and rescued from heathenism and
misery, and all their good wishes and prayers for her happiness were wedding ...
/.../corelli/the master-christian/xxxviii with the entry of.htm

Christ About his Father's Business
... your Lord, and by that other sacrament in which you found communion with Jesus,
now to fulfill your vows, and pay ... Put Christ at the wedding; you may imitate him ...
/.../spurgeon/spurgeons sermons volume 3 1857/christ about his fathers business.htm

Profession of Soeur Therese
... and, in "that peace which surpasseth all understanding,"[2] I pronounced my holy
vows. ... It was not possible to invite you to the Wedding Feast which took place ...
/.../martin/the story of a soul/chapter viii profession of soeur.htm

Profession of Soeur Therese
... and, in "that peace which surpasseth all understanding," [72] I pronounced my holy
vows. ... It was not possible to invite you to the Wedding Feast which took ...
/.../christianbookshelf.org/therese/story of a soul/chapter viii - profession of.htm

The "Fraternity" of Pharisees
... sum up then: the fraternity of the Pharisees were bound by these two vows"that of ...
eat and drink, for the world in which we are is like a wedding feast"; "If ...
/.../edersheim/sketches of jewish social life/chapter 14 the fraternity of.htm

A Present Religion
... be girt with your shroud, but not be able to put on the wedding raiment. ... hospital
of humanity"that such as thought they were dying and made vows of repentance ...
/.../spurgeon/spurgeons sermons volume 4 1858/a present religion.htm

Spurgeon's Sermons Volume 17: 1871
... The Parable of the Wedding Feast. The Wedding Garment. The Master's Profession--
The Disciple's Pursuit. ... Sleep Not. Praises and Vows Accepted in Zion. ...
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Resources
Why did Jesus choose the wedding at Cana for His first miracle? | GotQuestions.org

What sort of things should be in Christian wedding/marriage vows? | GotQuestions.org

Should married Christians wear wedding rings? | GotQuestions.org

Wedding: Dictionary and Thesaurus | Clyx.com

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