Wedding Ceremony
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A wedding ceremony, as understood within the context of the Bible, is a sacred covenant that unites a man and a woman in marriage. This union is ordained by God and is foundational to the structure of family and society. The Bible provides various insights into the nature and significance of marriage, though it does not prescribe a specific liturgy or ceremony.

Biblical Foundations

The concept of marriage is introduced in the early chapters of Genesis. God created man and woman and established the marital relationship as a divine institution. Genesis 2:24 states, "For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh." This verse underscores the leaving, cleaving, and uniting aspects of marriage, highlighting its exclusivity and permanence.

Covenantal Nature

Marriage is depicted as a covenantal relationship, reflecting God's covenant with His people. Malachi 2:14 refers to marriage as a covenant: "Yet you ask, 'For what reason?' Because the LORD has been a witness between you and the wife of your youth. You have broken faith with her, though she is your partner, the wife of your marriage covenant." This covenantal aspect emphasizes faithfulness, commitment, and mutual respect.

Ceremonial Elements

While the Bible does not provide a detailed description of a wedding ceremony, several elements can be inferred from biblical narratives and cultural practices of the time:

1. Betrothal and Engagement: In biblical times, marriage often began with a betrothal period, a formal engagement that was legally binding. This is seen in the relationship between Mary and Joseph (Matthew 1:18-19).

2. Celebration and Feasting: Weddings were joyous occasions marked by celebration and feasting. The wedding at Cana, where Jesus performed His first miracle by turning water into wine, illustrates the festive nature of such events (John 2:1-11).

3. Blessings and Prayers: Blessings and prayers were integral to the wedding process. The patriarchal blessings given to Rebekah before her marriage to Isaac (Genesis 24:60) and the prayers for Ruth and Boaz (Ruth 4:11-12) highlight the spiritual significance attributed to marriage.

4. Witnesses and Community Involvement: Weddings were community events, with family and friends serving as witnesses. This communal aspect is evident in the parable of the ten virgins, who awaited the bridegroom's arrival (Matthew 25:1-13).

Symbolism and Christological Significance

Marriage is often used as a metaphor for the relationship between Christ and the Church. Ephesians 5:25-32 draws a parallel between the love of a husband for his wife and Christ's love for the Church, emphasizing sacrificial love and unity. This Christological dimension elevates the marriage covenant to a reflection of divine love and redemption.

Moral and Ethical Considerations

The Bible upholds marriage as honorable and pure. Hebrews 13:4 states, "Marriage should be honored by all and the marriage bed kept undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers." This underscores the moral and ethical responsibilities inherent in the marital relationship, calling for fidelity and holiness.

Conclusion

The wedding ceremony, while not explicitly detailed in Scripture, is deeply rooted in biblical principles and symbolism. It is a celebration of a divinely instituted covenant, reflecting God's design for human relationships and His redemptive plan for humanity.
Topical Bible Verses
Revelation 19:7-9
Let us be glad and rejoice, and give honor to him: for the marriage of the Lamb is come, and his wife has made herself ready.
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John 2:1-11
And the third day there was a marriage in Cana of Galilee; and the mother of Jesus was there:
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Genesis 2:24
Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall join to his wife: and they shall be one flesh.
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Mark 10:6-9
But from the beginning of the creation God made them male and female.
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Greek
1062. gamos -- a wedding
... Phonetic Spelling: (gam'-os) Short Definition: a marriage, wedding, wedding-feast
Definition: a marriage, wedding, wedding-ceremony; plur: a wedding-feast. ...
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Whether Matrimony is Fittingly Named?
... in reference to this it is called the "nuptial union" from "nubo" [*The original
meaning of 'nubo' is 'to veil'], because at the wedding ceremony, whereby the ...
/.../aquinas/summa theologica/whether matrimony is fittingly named.htm

Whom the Lady Miriam Sent
... Thereafter there is still much feasting, but the wedding ceremony is done at the
home-bringing of the bride.". "I hear," said Kenkenes when she paused. ...
//christianbookshelf.org/miller/the yoke/chapter xlvi whom the lady.htm

The Wedding Garment
... I shall be present as an onlooker, but take no share in the ceremony; I will ... to put
on the articles of mourning which are provided, so at the wedding feast each ...
/.../spurgeon/spurgeons sermons volume 17 1871/the wedding garment.htm

The St. Gregory Hymnal and Catholic Choir Book
... Mary, full of Grace. No. 150 Lord, Who at Cana's Wedding Feast. No. ... No. 216 THE BLESSED
VIRGIN. No. 217 CEREMONY MUSIC Motets for Reception, Profession etc. No. ...
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The Holy Family in Bethlehem after the Departure of the Kings.
... this; afterwards I saw that they were the preparations for a very touching ceremony. ...
the help of the shepherds, in honor of the anniversary of their wedding. ...
/.../emmerich/the life of the blessed virgin mary/xiv the holy family in.htm

Daniel "Made a Marriage for his Son. "
... On the wedding day a great number of the friends of both families assembled, and ...
even his enemies to be at peace with him." After the marriage ceremony was over ...
//christianbookshelf.org/hodson/old daniel/chapter twenty daniel made a.htm

Jesus Works his First Miracle at Cana in Galilee.
... Jordan to Cana] there was a marriage [In Palestine the marriage ceremony usually
began ... in this case it seems likely that poverty limited the wedding feast to ...
/.../mcgarvey/the four-fold gospel/xxii jesus works his first.htm

The Great Furnace for a Great Soul
... A Chinese village wedding is a terrible ordeal for the bride. ... sash which is thrust
into her hand, she finds herself in a courtyard where the ceremony is to ...
/.../cable/the fulfilment of a dream of pastor hsis/chapter xi the great furnace.htm

The Little Flower Enters the Carmel
... After the ceremony the Bishop entered. ... I also understood that a bride would not be
pleasing to the bridegroom on her wedding day were she not magnificently ...
/.../martin/the story of a soul/chapter vii the little flower.htm

the Little Flower Enters the Carmel
... After the ceremony the Bishop entered. ... I also understood that a bride would not be
pleasing to the bridegroom on her wedding day were she not magnificently ...
//christianbookshelf.org/therese/story of a soul/chapter vii - the little.htm

Resources
Why did Jesus choose the wedding at Cana for His first miracle? | GotQuestions.org

What sort of things should be in Christian wedding/marriage vows? | GotQuestions.org

Should married Christians wear wedding rings? | GotQuestions.org

Wedding: Dictionary and Thesaurus | Clyx.com

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