5383. philopróteuó
Lexical Summary
philopróteuó: To love to be first; to desire preeminence

Original Word: φιλοπρωτεύω
Part of Speech: Verb
Transliteration: philopróteuó
Pronunciation: fee-lo-pro-teh-OO-oh
Phonetic Spelling: (fil-op-rote-yoo'-o)
KJV: love to have the preeminence
NASB: loves to be first
Word Origin: [from a compound of G5384 (φίλος - friends) and G4413 (πρῶτος - first)]

1. to be fond of being first, i.e. ambitious of distinction

Strong's Exhaustive Concordance
to wish to be first

From a compound of philos and protos; to be fond of being first, i.e. Ambitious of distinction -- love to have the preeminence.

see GREEK philos

see GREEK protos

NAS Exhaustive Concordance
Word Origin
from a comp. of philos and prótos
Definition
to strive to be first
NASB Translation
loves to be first (1).

Thayer's Greek Lexicon
STRONGS NT 5383: φιλοπρωτεύω

φιλοπρωτεύω; (φιλόπρωτος, fond of being first, striving after the first place; from φίλος and πρῶτος: Artemidorus Daldianus, oneir. 2, 32; Plutarch (Alcib. 2, 2); mor., p. 471 e. (i. e. de tranquil. an. 12; p. 793 e. i. e. an seni sit etc. 18, 8)); to aspire after pre-eminence, to desire to be first: 3 John 1:9. (Several times in ecclesiastical writings.)

Topical Lexicon
Definition in Context

Strong’s Greek 5383 occurs once in the New Testament (3 John 1:9) and characterizes an attitude rather than merely an action: a self-pleasing craving to occupy the foremost position among believers.

Biblical Setting (3 John 1:9–10)

The Apostle John writes to the beloved Gaius, praising his hospitality to traveling brothers, then contrasting that gracious spirit with Diotrephes, “who loves to be first” (φιλοπρωτεύων). Diotrephes not only rejects John’s apostolic correspondence but “refuses to welcome the brothers himself, and he also stops those who want to do so and puts them out of the church” (3 John 10). The term therefore exposes a heart posture that manifests in five observable behaviors:

1. Rejecting apostolic authority.
2. Speaking maliciously against spiritual leaders.
3. Withholding hospitality from faithful workers.
4. Intimidating others into similar rejection.
5. Exercising disciplinary measures for personal, not doctrinal, reasons.

Historical Background

By the close of the first century, itinerant teachers circulated among the congregations. Letters of commendation (cf. Acts 18:27; 2 Corinthians 3:1) normally secured them food, lodging, and the assembly’s ear. Diotrephes appears to have occupied a leading position—perhaps an elder or host of a house-church—yet his craving for prominence eclipsed both apostolic instruction and Christian charity. His conduct illustrates one of the earliest documented church power-struggles after the death of the first-generation apostles.

Theological Significance

1. Authority in the Church. John writes as an eyewitness apostle. Diotrephes’ resistance shows that ecclesiastical titles, charisma, or local influence never supersede Christ-delegated authority mediated through Scripture.
2. Character over Position. The New Testament repeatedly ties leadership to servanthood (Mark 10:42-45; 1 Peter 5:2-3). φιλοπρωτεύων underlines that ambition detached from humility corrupts ministry.
3. Preeminence Reserved for Christ. “So that in all things He may have the preeminence” (Colossians 1:18). Diotrephes grasps for what belongs to the Lord alone.
4. Congregational Health. An unchecked φιλοπρωτεύων spirit fractures fellowship, stifles mission, and discourages hospitality—central marks of New Testament community (Romans 12:10-13).

Related Themes and Supporting Scriptures

• Humility: “Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit, but in humility consider others more important than yourselves” (Philippians 2:3).
• Servant-Leadership: “Whoever wants to be first must be slave of all” (Mark 10:44).
• Pride’s Downfall: “Pride goes before destruction” (Proverbs 16:18).
• False Wisdom: “Where jealousy and selfish ambition exist, there will be disorder” (James 3:16).
• Christ’s Example: “He made Himself nothing … becoming obedient to death” (Philippians 2:7-8).

Pastoral and Ministry Applications

• Discern Leadership Candidates. Churches should value proven humility, hospitality, and submission to Scripture above charisma or assertiveness.
• Address Early Symptoms. Gossip, exclusivity, and resistance to biblical correction often signal a φιλοπρωτεύων attitude. Prompt, loving confrontation (Matthew 18:15-17) protects the flock.
• Preserve Apostolic Teaching. Upholding the authority of the written Word guards against personalities that seek to dominate.
• Encourage Hospitality. John commends Gaius for what Diotrephes withholds. Congregations promote unity by welcoming faithful workers and resisting isolationism.
• Model Servanthood. Leaders can intentionally choose last place—sharing credit, listening first, and performing unnoticed tasks—to cultivate an anti-Diotrephes culture.

Warnings for Contemporary Believers

1. Spiritual Pride can emerge in any role—pastor, committee chair, small-group host.
2. Influence becomes destructive when tethered to personal ego rather than gospel mission.
3. Suppressing the voices of faithful brethren undercuts Christ’s gifts to His body (1 Corinthians 12:21).
4. Church discipline must aim at doctrinal purity and restoration, never at protecting personal prestige.

Christ’s True Preeminence

While φιλοπρωτεύων describes sinful aspiration, Scripture presents a righteous preeminence in the exalted Christ: “Therefore God exalted Him to the highest place” (Philippians 2:9). Jesus obtains first place not by grasping but by giving His life. Believers combat Diotrephes-like tendencies by fixing their eyes on the One who “came not to be served, but to serve” (Mark 10:45).

Summary

Strong’s Greek 5383 exposes a perennial temptation: loving to be first. Embodied in Diotrephes, it contradicts apostolic authority, undermines fellowship, and robs Christ of the honor due His name. Scripture answers with the humility of Jesus, the servant-leadership ethic of the apostles, and pastoral vigilance within the local assembly. As believers submit to these timeless principles, the church remains a place where Christ alone holds the rightful preeminence.

Forms and Transliterations
φιλοπρωτευων φιλοπρωτεύων φιλοπρώτευων philoproteuon philoproteúon philoprōteuōn philoprōteúōn
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Englishman's Concordance
3 John 1:9 V-PPA-NMS
GRK: ἀλλ' ὁ φιλοπρωτεύων αὐτῶν Διοτρέφης
NAS: but Diotrephes, who loves to be first among them, does not accept
KJV: who loveth to have the preeminence among them,
INT: but who loves to be first among them Diotrephes

Strong's Greek 5383
1 Occurrence


φιλοπρωτεύων — 1 Occ.

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