How does 2 Samuel 13:28 highlight the importance of seeking God's guidance before acting? The Scene Unfolding “Now Absalom had commanded his young men, saying, ‘Watch Amnon until his heart is merry with wine, and when I tell you, “Strike Amnon,” then kill him. Do not fear; have I not commanded you? Be courageous and valiant.’ ” (2 Samuel 13:28) What Absalom Did—And Did Not Do • Absalom devised a private plan of vengeance. • He relied on human strategy, timing, and intimidation. • The verse records no prayer, no consultation with God’s law, no seeking of prophetic counsel. • His order—“be courageous and valiant”—mimicked righteous language while pursuing unrighteous ends. Consequences of Acting Without Divine Direction • Sin multiplied: revenge murder followed the original sin of rape (13:14), deepening family and national turmoil. • Fear spread: Absalom’s servants obeyed, yet the household of David was shaken (13:29–31). • Alienation grew: Absalom fled and lived in exile for three years (13:34, 38). • The kingdom suffered: David mourned continually, and future rebellion fermented (15:1–6). Scriptural Contrast—When God Is Sought First • David’s earlier habit: “David inquired of the LORD, ‘Shall I go and attack these Philistines?’ … The LORD answered…” (1 Samuel 23:2,4). Victory followed obedience. • Joshua’s lapse with the Gibeonites: “But they did not seek the counsel of the LORD” (Joshua 9:14). Trouble ensued for generations. • God’s promise: “I will instruct you and teach you in the way you should go; I will counsel you with My eye upon you” (Psalm 32:8). Core Lessons on Seeking God Before Acting • Human zeal, untethered from divine guidance, produces devastation. • Holy ends can never be achieved by unholy means (Romans 12:19). • God willingly grants wisdom—“If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God” (James 1:5). • Trust replaces haste: “Trust in the LORD with all your heart… in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight” (Proverbs 3:5–6). Practical Takeaways Today • Pause before reaction; petition God for clarity and timing. • Measure plans against the clear boundaries of Scripture. • Resist cloaking personal agendas in spiritual language. • Remember that obedience protects relationships, reputations, and future fruitfulness. |