2 Sam 3:11 & Prov 29:25: Fear of man?
How does 2 Samuel 3:11 relate to Proverbs 29:25 about fear of man?

Setting the Scene

2 Samuel 3 shows the power struggle after King Saul’s death.

• Abner, the commander, confronts Ish-bosheth, Saul’s son and puppet king, over a false accusation (3:7-10).

• Verse 11 records Ish-bosheth’s reaction:

“Ish-bosheth could not reply to Abner, because he feared him.”


The Snare Exposed in Ish-bosheth

• Ish-bosheth’s silence is not humility; it is intimidation.

• He holds royal authority in name yet submits to Abner’s dominance.

• Fear of Abner traps him in passivity, leading to political weakness (3:11-14) and eventual assassination (4:5-7).


Proverbs 29:25—God’s Diagnosis

“The fear of man is a snare, but whoever trusts in the LORD is set securely on high.”

• Fear of man = a trap that immobilizes and endangers.

• Trust in the LORD = elevation, protection, stability.


Linking the Narratives

• Ish-bosheth illustrates the proverb:

– Fear of Abner (man) = snare → silence, loss of authority, downfall.

– Absence of trust in the LORD = no divine protection or boldness.

• Where Proverbs teaches the principle, 2 Samuel supplies a living example.


Supporting Passages

• Saul: “I feared the people and obeyed their voice.” (1 Samuel 15:24)

• Peter: chose fear of men before Pentecost (Mark 14:66-72), fearless afterward (Acts 4:19).

• Jesus: “Do not fear those who kill the body… fear Him who is able to destroy both soul and body in hell.” (Matthew 10:28)

• Paul: “If I were still trying to please men, I would not be a servant of Christ.” (Galatians 1:10)


Lessons for Today

• Fear seeks control; trust yields control to God.

• Titles, positions, or relationships cannot compensate for a heart trapped by human intimidation.

• Freedom from the snare begins where reverence for God surpasses regard for human opinion.


Choosing Trust Over Terror

Practical steps:

1. Identify the voices you allow to silence obedience to God.

2. Replace anxious thoughts with Scripture promises (Psalm 56:3-4; Isaiah 51:12-13).

3. Act in faith even when nervous; courage grows through practiced trust.

4. Surround yourself with believers who model God-fearing boldness (Hebrews 10:24-25).

Ish-bosheth’s tragedy warns; Proverbs 29:25 instructs. Trusting the LORD breaks the snare and lifts believers to secure ground.

What does Ish-bosheth's silence reveal about his leadership in 2 Samuel 3:11?
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