How does Acts 23:5 encourage us to speak truthfully yet respectfully? The verse itself “Paul replied, ‘Brothers, I did not realize that he was the high priest; for it is written: ‘Do not speak evil about the ruler of your people.’ ” (Acts 23:5) Truth and respect in Paul’s response • Paul had just called the high priest a “whitewashed wall” (v. 3)—a blunt statement of truth about hypocrisy. • The moment he realized he had addressed the high priest, he submitted to the command of Exodus 22:28 and restrained his words. • He remained committed to truth (he didn’t retract the charge) yet recognized God-ordained authority and chose respectful speech. Key lessons for our speech • Truth is non-negotiable—Paul’s conscience stayed clear (cf. Acts 24:16). • Respect is commanded—regardless of whether the authority is righteous. • Scripture governs both what we say and how we say it. • Humility keeps us teachable; the instant Paul saw his error, he corrected course. Supporting Scriptures that echo this balance • Exodus 22:28: “You shall not blaspheme God or curse a ruler of your people.” • Ephesians 4:15: “Instead, speaking the truth in love, we will in all things grow up into Christ...” • 1 Peter 3:15: “…always be ready to give a defense…yet with gentleness and respect.” • Proverbs 15:1: “A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.” • Romans 13:1-2: “There is no authority except from God, and those that exist are appointed by God.” Practical steps for everyday conversations 1. Weigh your words against Scripture before speaking (Psalm 141:3). 2. State facts plainly; avoid personal attacks or sarcasm. 3. Acknowledge positions of authority—even sinful ones—while addressing wrongdoing. 4. If you cross the line, repent quickly and publicly, as Paul did. 5. Aim for a tone that reflects Christ’s character: truthful, gracious, and firm (Colossians 4:6). Encouragement to rely on God’s Word When Scripture shapes both content and tone, we can confront error without dishonoring God-given authority. Acts 23:5 reminds us that faithful disciples speak with the backbone of truth and the heartbeat of respect—just like Paul did before the Sanhedrin. |
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