How can we ensure our decisions align with the wisdom of Proverbs 19:20? Foundation Verse “Listen to counsel and accept discipline, that you may be wise in your latter days.” (Proverbs 19:20) Hear Before You Decide • Slow ears precede sound choices (James 1:19). • Turning a matter over in the mind begins by turning an ear toward others (Proverbs 18:13). • The literal command is “listen,” not merely “hear,” calling for intentional attention. Seek Godly Counsel • Scripture—always the first voice (2 Timothy 3:16; Psalm 119:105). • Parents and seasoned believers whose lives display fruit (Proverbs 13:20). • Local church leadership, given for equipping and safeguarding (Ephesians 4:11-14). • Multiple advisors create stability (Proverbs 15:22). • Refuse voices that contradict clear biblical teaching, no matter how persuasive (Galatians 1:8). Embrace Discipline and Correction • Correction preserves rather than restricts (Hebrews 12:11). • Loving rebuke marks true friendship (Proverbs 27:5-6). • Resisting reproof is to despise one’s own soul (Proverbs 15:32). • A teachable spirit guards against pride, the root of many missteps (Proverbs 16:18). Measure Every Decision Against Scripture • Identify the principle: locate passages that speak to motives, means, and ends. • Examine the fruit: will the outcome promote righteousness, peace, and joy in the Holy Spirit (Romans 14:17)? • Assess conscience: anything not from faith is sin (Romans 14:23). • Confirm with counsel: agreement among godly voices reinforces clarity. Look to Long-Term Wisdom • God’s Word proves true over time; decisions made in line with it age well (Psalm 19:7-11). • “Latter days” underscores legacy thinking—consider impact on future generations (Proverbs 13:22). • The prudent foresee evil and hide; shortsighted choices miss hidden dangers (Proverbs 22:3). Practical Steps for Everyday Choices • Begin with prayerful reading of relevant passages. • List potential actions, noting which align plainly with Scripture. • Consult at least two mature believers before finalizing a significant decision. • Receive feedback without defensiveness; adjust plans accordingly. • Act in faith, trusting the literal promises of God to guide and uphold. |
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