How can we apply Stephen's attitude in Acts 7:60 to our daily conflicts? Setting the Scene: Stephen’s Final Words Acts 7:60 – “Falling on his knees, he cried out in a loud voice, ‘Lord, do not hold this sin against them.’ And when he had said this, he fell asleep.” Key Truths to Embrace • Forgiveness begins before the wrong is corrected. • Prayer for offenders disarms bitterness. • Confidence in God’s justice releases us from personal revenge. • Christ’s example fuels our response (Luke 23:34). Daily Conflict Applications • See the real enemy: “Our struggle is not against flesh and blood” (Ephesians 6:12). • Choose rapid forgiveness; delay lets resentment germinate (Ephesians 4:26–27). • Pray blessing, not pay-back: “Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you” (Matthew 5:44). • Speak truth without spite—Stephen addressed sin, yet with a gracious finale. • Entrust outcomes to God’s court, not yours (Romans 12:19). • Keep eternity in view; temporary wounds do not eclipse eternal reward (2 Corinthians 4:17). Practical Steps for Today 1. Pause and pray before responding in any conflict. 2. Name the hurt honestly, but hand the offender to the Lord’s mercy. 3. Offer a tangible kindness (Romans 12:20). 4. Refuse rehearsing the offense; rehearse God’s promises instead (Psalm 37:5). 5. Invite accountability—share your commitment to forgive with a mature believer. 6. Repeat as often as memories resurface (Matthew 18:21-22). Scriptures for Further Reflection Living Stephen’s Attitude in a Hostile World Take every conflict as an invitation to showcase supernatural grace. When you kneel in prayer for someone who wounds you, heaven stands witness, and your world gains a glimpse of Christ. |
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